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 Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 9:14 pm
Ok well me and my really good friend were talking tonight and i ended up bringing up the topic of trust and she brought up church she is a christian but she doesnt beleive in mary and saints - so i said i regret an online relationship I had because it was stupid.unsafe. and I lost complete trust in my family.. so when i told her i hate when i had lost all the trust in my family bothered me because im good and i dont always like to go against my family she had said :"I wouldnt have cared[if she lost all her trust] i would have still talked to him." So im like well Im good and i dont like to be bad because my friends are. Then i said you lose all your freedom when you lose trust in your family - She says: i have my ways to get the things that I want.. Then I said do you like not beleive? and shes like im not strong i know he died on the cross for our sins and stuff and im not religious.. then she says like i dont see why we have to go to church and im like ummm y? n shes like because its weird and i was like shocked because i mean shes always going to church .. Im worried about her because she seems to be like a follower to me anything her friends do she does 1. friends started watching anime porn then she started 2. one of her friends who is really nice used to be strong in her faith then she became lower in faith like her dad and then she began to not think going to church is important and so now her is one of my really good friends I have grown up with and she is now saying she doesnt want to go to church and its weird.. Its just dissapointing..
thxx again :]]
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Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2007 8:53 pm
....What? Could you please simplify that? I got confused around the middle part.
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Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 1:18 pm
It sounds to me like she's beginning to fall away from God. Try to convince her to go back to church, and if she still won't, pray for her.
Prayer is the most powerful Christian tool.(although I feel weird calling it a tool sweatdrop )
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Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 7:48 pm
Either she was not fully into the "God thing" or she is as ws said falling away.
We go to church to be with fellow believers because the can pull you up when you start to stumble. They can point things out to you that you are not seeing. They give you a boost in your spiritual walk. 20 people can read the same scripture and get different view points of it. It is amazing.
I remember when I was starting to fall away from the lord. My church had fired the pastor I had grown up with. So I didn't feel like supporting a new pastor. Then my parents were abusive so I turned to drinking well when I started doing things that I knew were wrong I didn't feel right going to church. This happened again years later when I started having affairs on my husband.
I am back on track now. biggrin
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