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 Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 7:29 pm
Sierra and i have been best friends since we were like, 3.
so i can understand her being a little taken aback when i came out last year, but she's accepting, and she accepted me.
A few weeks ago i started hanging out with Hayley, this girl i had met about a year before and we had just started getting close.
So i wasn't hanging out with Sierra as much, we hung out every day all the time but still it started to wear on me, always doing the same thing with the same people,
but she started acting weird when i started hanging out with Hayley and other people, and basically figured i totally ditched her.
I am right, right? that i don't HAVE to always be with her?
i didn't think so.
but even after i tried to hang out with her more, she always acted weird. So i felt uncomfortable and lefet her again.
And now Hayley and I are dating. And Sierra doesn't even look at me anymore.
She hates Hayley. And i cannot STAND that. Because i've always supported her relationships even if i hated the guy I ALWAYS stood by her.
I'm just... really sad about it. We were so close and it's completely fallen apart.
But just... now i'm seeing all her flaws. She's loosing all her friends because shes so overly judgemental.
I dunno. Im just sad. It's hard to deal
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 7:35 pm
Well... I guess I'll throw in my two cents...There are two possibilities
1) Sierra is jealous that you have a relationship with another woman who is not her, or she is jealous that you seem happy.
2) (More likely) By not hanging with her, you gave her the message that you don't value your friendship with her because your gay, and your straight friends don't matter. I think you should tell her how you feel...explain that you want to stay friends and that you'll always keep a place for her in your heart.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:35 pm
hmm I don't know about that but i know that if someone doesn't meet her standards she ditches them. boyfriends usually and their own groups she'd talk trash about them and all this crap and cause all this drama about it until the next person comes along and as soon as she finds their imperfection they're gone too.
all i know is taht sooner or later she's gonna weed out all her friends till she has no one.
sucks for her.
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