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-Glad Im Not Emo-

PostPosted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 9:24 pm


Long title, I know, but heres the thing....

So, I am not really uber open about my Transexuality. Being an FtM out in my group of friends wouldn't change anything. They are disrespectful about it, constantly basing everything off of the binary gender system and the idea of Gender and Sex being equal...

My sexuality, has always been pretty open, Pansexual, meaning i can love anyone, but I have a few problems....

-I dont feel comfortable with other men being Masculine towards me. I tend to surround myself with women or Effeminate men...For reasons.

-I also don't feel comfortable being treated like a "Lady" by a "Gentleman", if you know what I mean.

Now here the problem. There is a boy who has liked me for the past 4 years...I've known, and never really expected him to confess because he is the shy gentlemanly type...opening doors, pulling out chairs, buying me things...i mean really nice things...Like $300 necklaces....

He dosn't know I am Trans. He also disregards my current, 2 year running relationship. He has asked me to several dances......

Now he sent me an E-mail, with an attachment of something he said...

Guy who likes me

Hay. Hows everything? Hows your family? Attached to this email is a sound file, there is some thing I wanted to ask you and i wanted to do it in my own voice. It's kind of privet, so you might want to listen to it by your self. Or not either way. This wasn't easy for me to do, but I'm serous about what I'm asking. Please write me back soon.


And frankly I am afraid to listen to the sound file.....

What will it say?

I am worried it will be asking me to go out with him or...or something.or guilt trip me into doing it or....

AGGGGAHSAGDSJKiosdnipdevdnsfdoknaN


I HATE HIGHSCHOOL!!!!!

What should I doo?????

*passes out*
PostPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 11:07 am


Ignoring the file wouldn't lead you anywhere, you should at least know for sure what he said... There's really no point in guessing.

There's this old line saying that "love can't be bought",
it fits your case perfectly - just because some guy acts gentleman-ly around you, or buys you expensive goods it DOESN'T mean you HAVE to go out with him.

In case the inner fight involves with MUTUAL feelings [...which aren't written at all.], then you must tell him about your Transsexuality.

See where his heart lies...
I can assure you, love won't come if he can't see you as the man you're within.
There's no point in messing with his mind any longer, now that he's serious.

Cole Blackness


-Glad Im Not Emo-

PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:23 am


Am I really messing with his mind though? I've told ihm very clearly that i am not interested, but very willing to be friends, because he is a nice guy. He knows i really have only dated girls the past 4 years i've known him...

The file was asking me to the Prom. For the third time. No matter how many times i decline, he is persistant.

He has nothing wrong with Transexuality, he grew up with his moms group of trans friends, but i jsut don't feel comfortable telling him. Last time i told him something utterly confidential, i was outed as being a lesbian, or so i thaught i was one, to my whole family....I can't really trust him
PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:02 pm


THIRD time?... This guy's pathetic. ==.

Maybe you're right.. after rejecting him time after time he'd only think of it
as an excuse to put him down yet again..

That obsessiveness he has forwards you MUST be cut.

Cole Blackness

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