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 Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 4:19 pm
So I've realized I'm too much of a horndog to do this whole celibacy thing, so (with my #1's help in picking one out) I ordered a strap-on online earlier this week...
And since I've never had any experience using a d**k (real or plastic), I was wondering if anyone who's gotten one and used it with a partner can give any advice or tips on using it (especially any gay boys here).
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Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 4:21 pm
Let me second the motion for tips. I'd very much like to know what people have to say on this.
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Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 4:26 pm
=X I have no experience with strap ons.... but I always thought it was something that would come sort of natrualy[?] I mean you know how a**l sex works right? I'm not really sure what you need to be informed on XD;; I mean if its a good strap on it shouldn't be like those nasty solid-plastic pain sticks D: and its kind of obvious that your not going to PLOW INTO THEM like some rabid squirl :/
unless someone with lots of knowledge just decides to describe sex scenes XD it'd be easier to ask specific questions
ps. I'm uke soo.... I know the one side better then the other XD;;
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 7:30 am
I have no expierence with srap ons. perhaps going to an adult toy store would help. i'm sure they would know more about it then i would.
congrats dude, use protection and all that jazz.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 7:51 am
Experiment? smile I don't know. Probably going to be faced with a similar situation myself at some point in the near future. sweatdrop
I mean...bio-boys have to learn how to have sex at some point too, and the first/couple of times are probably going to be awkward regardless of whether you were born with the equipment or not. That shouldn't be something to be ashamed of or worried about, I think. What's important is the connection with your partner, so I would say experiment with them and see what works for you.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 9:29 am
Alrighty, I can lend my skills and knowledge here. There are a few questions about your new toy that needs to be asked.
1. What is it made of?
If its made of silicone then you're in luck. Silicone is a non-pourus material meaning that it is washable. Materials like ruber, plastic, and cyberskin are pourus which means as much as you scrub STDs will forever be in there (if ther are any). Silicone is boilable. You can boil it for 10-15 minutes, or pop it in the dishwasher (top rack).
2. How big is your d**k?
Most people live off the idea that "bigger is better" but if you're new to it all bigger sucks. If this d**k is being used in a**l sex length is not an issue, but girth will be. a**l penetration can handle a lot of length, but not alot of girth where as vaginal can handle something thick but not long.
Now that you know those two facts its time for the fun stuff!
The a**s doesn't lubricate itself so I would suggest buying water based lube, and lubricated condoms. The lubricated condoms seem like they have a lot of lube on them, but it really won't be enough because latex tends to dry up pretty fast. Lube is a very important and key component to a**l sex.
So...you've got your d**k, you've got your lube now what? Depending on the position and type of d**k you have I would suggest starting slow at first, and not trying to force anything....oh and if your d**k has a curve adjust it so the curve is pointing towards their front. If its a**l sex on a male it will stimulate the prostate, and on a female it will stimulate the vaginal walls and possibly the g-spot. I would also suggest getting a "margic carpet" its something used to stimulate the outter bits while gettin' yo freak on.
ENJOY!
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 10:05 am
thankyouthankyouthankyou xd This helps a lot actually...
It's the cyberskin/ultraskin kinda stuff 'cause I can't really afford a realistic silicone one right now, but I figure as long as I always use a condom and clean it right, I should be ok until I have to replace it...
And my boy helped me figure out the size and everything. He even asked some other guys about it so I could get a more generally accepted size (to my horror...the boy has no shame). We ended up looking at like 7" (length did matter to them, though mostly for oral) and I forget exactly how big around it was but it was fairly modest (as they all agreed that thick monster c**k was not very bottom-friendly :XP smile .
I completely forgot about the whole prostate thing (cuz I don't have one... crying ), so thanks for the advice on the curve. I want to be able to pleasure my partner the best I can...
I know no matter what it's prolly gonna be kinda awkward the first few times I do it, but at least I'll be a little more prepared...
Update: My payment cleared and it's being shipped, so I should have it next week! xd
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:49 am
alexpc thankyouthankyouthankyou xd This helps a lot actually... It's the cyberskin/ultraskin kinda stuff 'cause I can't really afford a realistic silicone one right now, but I figure as long as I always use a condom and clean it right, I should be ok until I have to replace it... And my boy helped me figure out the size and everything. He even asked some other guys about it so I could get a more generally accepted size (to my horror...the boy has no shame). We ended up looking at like 7" (length did matter to them, though mostly for oral) and I forget exactly how big around it was but it was fairly modest (as they all agreed that thick monster c**k was not very bottom-friendly :XP smile . I completely forgot about the whole prostate thing (cuz I don't have one... crying ), so thanks for the advice on the curve. I want to be able to pleasure my partner the best I can... I know no matter what it's prolly gonna be kinda awkward the first few times I do it, but at least I'll be a little more prepared... Update: My payment cleared and it's being shipped, so I should have it next week! xd The ultraskin should be cleaned with soap and water, let it dry out and a light dusting with corn startch...the problem with the ones that I've seen is that they're not fully hard
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:00 pm
Water based lube and lots of it. You are really supposed to use water based so it doesn't form a rash and it's easier to wash.
Wash it after every use, I'd wash it a bit before each use too. Condom's too so you can keep it as clean as possible. .....If you didn't notice I'm very paranoid about the sterility of sex bits.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:50 pm
I'll definitely make sure to wash it regularly (although I doubt I'll wash the condoms because 1) it seems to me they'd break easier and 2) since I'm getting the lubricated kind, washing them wouldn't be wise...). There's no reason a condom fresh out of the wrapper shouldn't be clean. nygeel 13 the problem with the ones that I've seen is that they're not fully hard I gotta check it when it comes in...vag stuff can get away with it, but I'm really gonna need something firm enough for a**l...
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:38 pm
Hmm.
http://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Strap-Sex-Complete/dp/157344085X
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*has, sadly, only been penetrated.*
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 2:04 pm
.six-speed.[.tranny.] Hmm. http://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Strap-Sex-Complete/dp/157344085X ? *has, sadly, only been penetrated.* I am so buying this book...
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 3:41 pm
Would You Know My Name...
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LUCKY! YOU GETS TO DO THE SEX.
XD I enjoy learning about sex and all things to do with it. sweatdrop I'm such a naughty little boy.
You have no idea how jealous I am. D= I want a partner, but I can't get one until I come across as male at first glance. >.< But I'm really jealous of you. XD I could rant forever, but I won't.
I'm glad your partner isn't shy to help you with this, though! =D
Goodluck, and I hope you get LOTS of practice. XD
...If I saw you in Heaven?
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 6:41 pm
alexpc I'll definitely make sure to wash it regularly (although I doubt I'll wash the condoms because 1) it seems to me they'd break easier and 2) since I'm getting the lubricated kind, washing them wouldn't be wise...). There's no reason a condom fresh out of the wrapper shouldn't be clean. nygeel 13 the problem with the ones that I've seen is that they're not fully hard I gotta check it when it comes in...vag stuff can get away with it, but I'm really gonna need something firm enough for a**l... I'm not sure...just tell me the name of it (I frequent the local toys in babeland) whee the realistic silicone ones that I have weren't that much.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 8:24 pm
Soraachan Would You Know My Name...
I'm glad your partner isn't shy to help you with this, though! =D
...If I saw you in Heaven? Actually he's not my partner right now...my lover, yes, but we don't do anything physical with each other (as he's about 1500mi away)...since it's so long distance, it's kind of an open relationship...we even talk about our exploits... Like I said, our relationship's a little weird... sweatdrop
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