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 Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 4:10 pm
What do you value in a relationship?
What do you not value?
Are you in a relationship?
If not, do you want to be?
Is love overacted today?
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 5:33 pm
I think that high school relationships are silly... At least those deemed "special" or filled with "love". I really don't think that people can fall in love/know what love is in high school. It's overrated and too dramatic... I think all of the teenagers who feel they "love" their boyfriends/girlfriends should wait. Then again... I'm in high school, so what do I know? For all I know people could actually be in love (even though I'm highly doubtful).
*shrug* I'm a hypocrite, though; I keep thinking that I might be in love with my guy friend (I dated him before, but we broke up, and now we still hang out). I won't say it, but I keep wondering. See? Case and point; I'm a hypocrite. I guess it's good that we aren't dating now, so I can figure myself out. XD
I also think that movies and such advertise love too freely. They make it seem as if love can happen within seconds... I think that love can only form after time; someone can't fall in love with another person upon first sight... These are all just opinions of course. >_>
*rambles*
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Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:54 pm
Well I understand why you are getting from. Like today I think people throw love around too much. Same as hate. If my boyfriend told me he loved me, I'd be flattered, but I can't say it too if I don't mean it fully.
Alot of relationships I see today are one night stands where people get drunk, have sex. It's weird though...
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Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 4:36 pm
Mhm... The thing that makes me laugh is at school when couples are throwing around "I love you"'s while they are dating. When they break up, they say they hate each other, flip each other off, insult each other (very much), and often times harm one another. One guy I knew actually threw matches at his ex-girlfriend and kicked her in the head when she fell over once. Fortunately, his friends stopped him from trying to do anything else. I want to yell at them, because they seriously throw love around way too much!
If my boyfriend told me he loved me, it would most likely be far into the relationship and I would know that he was serious. The one guy I've dated thought on the same lines as I did and didn't want to take the dating too seriously. (The guy that I spoke of previously. XD)
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Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 9:31 am
Omg that's shocking....
Like for here people do the same.
But the actually putting harm on each other..Lord....
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Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 1:54 pm
Yeah... I really don't see how they can do that to someone shortly after saying they "love them"... Do that to someone period. It's horrid.
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Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 7:42 am
Gosh, the world would be a better place if everyone knew the true meaning of love. It'd be a weird turn though. To be going out with someone who supposedly "loves" you and the next for them to hate you....I never want to go through that.
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Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 1:45 pm
That's why I'm so glad that the guy I was dating still wanted to be friends after. That would be a very strange occurrence if people knew what love really meant... Lol
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Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 9:50 am
No one values relationships or the word love anymore. it's so sad. Some people wonder why I'm so bitter, but it's becasue I was in a relationship with a girl and I thought she loved me too, but she didnt. And then I had a depressive patch, and then I got over it and now I'm angry again. Because angry is my default etting.
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Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 4:12 am
I Love my boyfriend. I know I do. We have been together for a year now, and just last night I cried because I was so happy laying next to him thinking about how we strated going out and other silly stuff like that. I can't help but smile when I see him or laugh at his terrible jokes. I told him I loved him while we were still in high school and at first I thought to myself how can I be saying that if I'm not even sure what love is but I am glad I did. I remember in year 8 or 9 or somethingone of my friends had been going out with a guy for less then like a month and was like "I'm so in love" Obviously they didnt last... I though that was stupid... I mean one month? I think not. It takes time to know you are in love but if you feel it there is no denying it.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 9:24 am
Here's an interesting story. A friend and I were having a conversation last Wednesday, and he kept talking about how much he loved his girlfriend. Mind you they've been dating all of a month or two and he is a freshman in high school. I said, "I don't exactly agree with falling in love in high school, but it's nice that you feel that way about her." He said, "I don't care what you say. I love her." So I responded, "That's nice." Instead of saying "yes" or something along those lines, he proceeded to curse at me.
I have another friend who just started going out with a girl and is now leaving her messages on her site saying, "I love you." Two or three weeks they've been dating. O.o I really don't like the disregard with which people at my high school throw around those three words. *sigh*
I guess everyone's entitled to his/her own opinions, though. Lol
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 4:11 pm
I've been in a few relationships, and most turned out to be puppy love. And I'd always see a flaw in it, and then eventually it start to bother me, and wouldn't last too long.
Now I'm in a relationship and it's completely different. It's not fading, it's growing. It took me forever to tell him I loved him.(Which i believe it's a good thing) And when I said it, I meant it. It was a few days before he came home from Florida. And he makes me so happy, and I respect him so much. When I see him smile his very silly smile, a grin just spreads on my face.
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Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 10:37 am
To be honest, i'd need a partner who accepts me for all the things I do, not jsut the stuff that leads to a big social life. Stuff like listening to Turisas, playing warhammer and using gaia. But It's hard to to find someone like that. plus I try to avoid relationships I know wont go anywhere which is one of the factors in why I'm always single. that and I have trouble talking to women and I can be rather abrasive.
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Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 9:19 am
One thing I like to keep in mind when considering a relationship is that I just want to have fun. All of the people I know at school take their relationships too seriously, as if they were going to marry their boyfriend or girlfriend after they graduated. I think that, at least in high school, relationships should be fun and stress-free before we go into the real world.
I'm rarely in a relationship, though, simply because I'm always hyper and goofy. I seem immature the majority of the time and I'm not deep or thoughtful at school. The way I think about being single, though, is that I can hang out with anybody and nobody can complain.
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 7:00 pm
The flaw in my relationship is that I'm 14 and he's 16. Which means he'll be graduating next year. He might be taking a loser lap, or going to work to help for school before he actually heads off to college or university. But I have no clue whats going to happen to us. I hope that the long distance thing will work out okay.
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