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 Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 3:18 pm
I dont know what to do........I feel like I want to cry but I dont want to make my mom cry........see what happened was.....My moms Childhood friend ,Dawn,that she has known for 33 years died today.......She had a baby that was 4 monthes old and what happened was she died because of Cancer. First when they found the cancer it was right after she gave birth.....This woman was very bright.... So what happened was the Tumors were in her stomache and....well.........First what happened was that we saw a big lump on her tummy and so then they took her to the hospital....She became very sick......Soon she couldnt walk on her legs because she was weak......The doctor told her that she was to die soon.....So then they asked her if she wanted to die in the hospital or at her house and she said, "Hoouse."
So she layed weakly on her bed and my mom came over on Monday to pay her respects before she could die. When my mom left she came home crying and then she cried herself to sleep. At 5:08 a call came and Dawn's sister Missy called saying that Dawn died at 4:45 A.M and that was when Dawn walked to heaven with her mother and God. She walked to those white streaks in the blue skys and she laughed all the way...She finally gets to see her mother.
My Uncle called my mother and told her something out of the bible that goes like this, "On earth it seems like you live forever. Like you are never going to die, but when you go to heaven you wonder where you are and ask God, Where is everyone and he tells you they will be here in Twenty minutes.
What should I do? My chest is feeling heavy because of trying to hold in my emotions....My mom will start to cry if she sees me..And....I dont know what to do.......Can someone help me? crying
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 6:49 pm
That is a very unfortunate event, but your mother's friend's suffering (from cancer) has ended, hasn't it? She was relieved of such pain and suffering, wasn't she? I don't know what religion it is that you believe in (if you believe in any religion at all), but I think that she may be in a better place right now, waiting for everyone she loves to join her one day.
A teacher of mine died last year on Halloween. It was quite sudden to us, and none of his students were notified until the next day. Many of us cried our hearts out. I tried not to cry, but the tears just welled up. It wouldn't stop pouring. I tried to cover it up and pretend that I was alright, but I didn't do a very good job on it. I finally broke down. However, with the support of my friends, I was able to move on. I don't think your mother's friend would be very happy to see any of you being down because she left you all physically. However, my best advice is for you to cry however much you want, along with your mother. You'll feel better that way and nothing gets bottled up. Try to overcome your sadness together, if you want. Give each other support. Your mother's friend is probably watching over you two. You don't have to be sad because she's not suffering any more, and you don't have to be angry that she left you because, cheesy as it sounds, she's in your memories, right? ^^
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 7:07 pm
I agree with Rageofantasies. If I were your mom, I would be sad, too. But, life isn't fair. When we die, we'll get to see our loved ones in heaven if they died. I know your mom must've been /really/ upset, but there's also a bright side. When she dies, she gets to see Dawn again, making her happy. I really hope that your mom gets over it soon, and I also hope that you can try to cheer her up, because I don't know what you can do for her right now.
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 12:04 am
Rageofantasies That is a very unfortunate event, but your mother's friend's suffering (from cancer) has ended, hasn't it? She was relieved of such pain and suffering, wasn't she? I don't know what religion it is that you believe in (if you believe in any religion at all), but I think that she may be in a better place right now, waiting for everyone she loves to join her one day. A teacher of mine died last year on Halloween. It was quite sudden to us, and none of his students were notified until the next day. Many of us cried our hearts out. I tried not to cry, but the tears just welled up. It wouldn't stop pouring. I tried to cover it up and pretend that I was alright, but I didn't do a very good job on it. I finally broke down. However, with the support of my friends, I was able to move on. I don't think your mother's friend would be very happy to see any of you being down because she left you all physically. However, my best advice is for you to cry however much you want, along with your mother. You'll feel better that way and nothing gets bottled up. Try to overcome your sadness together, if you want. Give each other support. Your mother's friend is probably watching over you two. You don't have to be sad because she's not suffering any more, and you don't have to be angry that she left you because, cheesy as it sounds, she's in your memories, right? ^^ Thanks......That makes me feel better
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 12:05 am
ToddXSoren I agree with Rageofantasies. If I were your mom, I would be sad, too. But, life isn't fair. When we die, we'll get to see our loved ones in heaven if they died. I know your mom must've been /really/ upset, but there's also a bright side. When she dies, she gets to see Dawn again, making her happy. I really hope that your mom gets over it soon, and I also hope that you can try to cheer her up, because I don't know what you can do for her right now. ^^
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