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 Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 2:38 pm
im in the middle of a deep depression/low selfesteam problem right now my family has no idea but i want to go to coucelling for it. but to go to councelling i would have to tell them. and ill never ever do that! if i told them it would kill them! so iv been pratically dieing on the inside trying to think upa plan but im only 15! i cant pay for it myself or get a job! what should i do? i feel like this secret is like some kind of acid eating me from the inside~ crying
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Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 10:37 pm
Get some counselling! I know what its like to be depressed, and have low self-esteem, I also had a friend try to kill herself because she didnt feel like anyone could help her. I know that I could never tell my family either(or friends) I wish I could help you, but i think that if you could find a way to get counseling it will help you. of course i have no idea what is wrong so maybe none of this will help you. I wish there was a simple solution to give you. I dont know of any easy way for you to get counselling, but im sure there are places to get it for free, but you would still probably have to let family know. In the long run you will feel better.
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Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 10:41 pm
well, what's so wrong with having your family know that you feel bad? There's nothing wrong with not being perfictly happy(which sound strenge, yes.) but you can't let it ruel you.
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 6:59 pm
my family would freak... they would prolly act like they were sitting on pins and needles around me or act strange. im just afraid of what they would think of me... im not even sure of what im afraid of ... but i guess for yall to help i need to tell yall why i feel down..
- i feel really retarded at school and my mom and dad expect nothing less than B+ the are both really brainy but the smarts gene wasnt passed to me. it went to my identical twin sister.
- i feel unworthy of my boyfriend. he is really nice and wonderful! he is only my second bf so i dont really have that much experience in relationships. im a desprit romantic
- i think my family communication problem. we dont always meet eye to eye (well hardly ever) and my mom and dad get mad for just telling them how i feel!
- i feel fat im '5'3' and wiegh 98 pounds but but i hate my legs and tummy! they are to soft! i went on a diet but people freaked out! so i had to back to normal.
ok so please help me
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 10:46 pm
we all have things about ourselves that are imperfect. parents these days put too much pressure on their children, i swear gonk i know how you feel in that respect, and sometimes its easier to just not care what they think and to just try to live life and be happy. cant help with the boyfriend thing though, im doomed to be single for life...
all families have communication problems. it seems essentially inevitable that those you are forced to live with will probably either grow very close to you or you will develop a strong dislike for them. so communication usually isnt easy, as there is usually at least one person in ewach household on each end of the emotional spectrum, as far as liking/disliking everyonhe else in the house goes...
and for teh weight thing. im 5'7 and am about 140-something, so dont say anything about feeling fat XD at least i THINK im 140-somthing... hell, all im saying is to be a year older than me and still be under 100 pounds you should be PROUD of yourself, girl! but then again, the opinions of some insane psycho posting at nearly 2 AM shouldnt matter to anybody 3nodding
~Rin
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Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 8:37 pm
stargir123 my family would freak... they would prolly act like they were sitting on pins and needles around me or act strange. im just afraid of what they would think of me... im not even sure of what im afraid of ... but i guess for yall to help i need to tell yall why i feel down.. - i feel really retarded at school and my mom and dad expect nothing less than B+ the are both really brainy but the smarts gene wasnt passed to me. it went to my identical twin sister. - i feel unworthy of my boyfriend. he is really nice and wonderful! he is only my second bf so i dont really have that much experience in relationships. im a desprit romantic - i think my family communication problem. we dont always meet eye to eye (well hardly ever) and my mom and dad get mad for just telling them how i feel! - i feel fat im '5'3' and wiegh 98 pounds but but i hate my legs and tummy! they are to soft! i went on a diet but people freaked out! so i had to back to normal. ok so please help me You dont need to feel downsized by your grades. Its just school and some things are harder than others. All of education helps you figure out yourself and how you think, also its there to help your improve and expand. Youre grades shouldnt be worried about your grades unless you are failing or might need to excellent in something for anything special in school <3 As for your boyfriend. Dont stress about him unless he is bothered about having sex with you. You mightve caughten a gentleman early in your age. And for your parents,they will just have to deal with your feelings. Youre becoming an adult and thats just how its going to be. Darling you arent fat. Youre becoming a woman.Whether or not if you have kids your going to be slightly like that because all females are made to be mothers. <3 T0M
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Posted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 5:59 am
Depression sucks, I know, I've been there. I got out of it with help from my friends, I got out of it because I wanted to get out of it.....I was in it because my aunt who was my second mom died and my entire world crashed. But now, I'm a better person, I'm still a little depressed, but those moments come and go like everything else.
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Posted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 2:08 pm
stargir123 my family would freak... they would prolly act like they were sitting on pins and needles around me or act strange. im just afraid of what they would think of me... im not even sure of what im afraid of ... but i guess for yall to help i need to tell yall why i feel down.. - i feel really retarded at school and my mom and dad expect nothing less than B+ the are both really brainy but the smarts gene wasnt passed to me. it went to my identical twin sister. - i feel unworthy of my boyfriend. he is really nice and wonderful! he is only my second bf so i dont really have that much experience in relationships. im a desprit romantic - i think my family communication problem. we dont always meet eye to eye (well hardly ever) and my mom and dad get mad for just telling them how i feel! - i feel fat im '5'3' and wiegh 98 pounds but but i hate my legs and tummy! they are to soft! i went on a diet but people freaked out! so i had to back to normal. ok so please help me Im pretty much going throught the same thing besides the school and boyfriend part. Dont worry if you weigh 98 pounds at 5'3 your good. I am the same height but i weigh at least 120 puonds. Now thats bad. If no one calls you fat then your not. Like me my parents keep on telling me im fet.
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Posted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 5:56 am
CrazyxLadiee stargir123 my family would freak... they would prolly act like they were sitting on pins and needles around me or act strange. im just afraid of what they would think of me... im not even sure of what im afraid of ... but i guess for yall to help i need to tell yall why i feel down.. - i feel really retarded at school and my mom and dad expect nothing less than B+ the are both really brainy but the smarts gene wasnt passed to me. it went to my identical twin sister. - i feel unworthy of my boyfriend. he is really nice and wonderful! he is only my second bf so i dont really have that much experience in relationships. im a desprit romantic - i think my family communication problem. we dont always meet eye to eye (well hardly ever) and my mom and dad get mad for just telling them how i feel! - i feel fat im '5'3' and wiegh 98 pounds but but i hate my legs and tummy! they are to soft! i went on a diet but people freaked out! so i had to back to normal. ok so please help me Im pretty much going throught the same thing besides the school and boyfriend part. Dont worry if you weigh 98 pounds at 5'3 your good. I am the same height but i weigh at least 120 puonds. Now thats bad. If no one calls you fat then your not. Like me my parents keep on telling me im fet. ummm, if you're fat, what does that make me? I'm 5' 9", 230 lbs......I'm the 2nd tallest girl the the school...but, I'm the most lovable person you'll ever meet......if the guys would give me a chance, they'd relize that.....17 yrs and never had a bf....how lame is that?
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Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2007 9:29 am
slayer71289 CrazyxLadiee stargir123 my family would freak... they would prolly act like they were sitting on pins and needles around me or act strange. im just afraid of what they would think of me... im not even sure of what im afraid of ... but i guess for yall to help i need to tell yall why i feel down.. - i feel really retarded at school and my mom and dad expect nothing less than B+ the are both really brainy but the smarts gene wasnt passed to me. it went to my identical twin sister. - i feel unworthy of my boyfriend. he is really nice and wonderful! he is only my second bf so i dont really have that much experience in relationships. im a desprit romantic - i think my family communication problem. we dont always meet eye to eye (well hardly ever) and my mom and dad get mad for just telling them how i feel! - i feel fat im '5'3' and wiegh 98 pounds but but i hate my legs and tummy! they are to soft! i went on a diet but people freaked out! so i had to back to normal. ok so please help me Im pretty much going throught the same thing besides the school and boyfriend part. Dont worry if you weigh 98 pounds at 5'3 your good. I am the same height but i weigh at least 120 puonds. Now thats bad. If no one calls you fat then your not. Like me my parents keep on telling me im fet. ummm, if you're fat, what does that make me? I'm 5' 9", 230 lbs......I'm the 2nd tallest girl the the school...but, I'm the most lovable person you'll ever meet......if the guys would give me a chance, they'd relize that.....17 yrs and never had a bf....how lame is that? Well you are taller. And also i bet you got muscles cause muscles weigh 3 times more than fat. So i guess. Does anyone keep telling you your fat? These people i dont see in like one two months keep telling me "omg your getting fatter"
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Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 5:54 am
CrazyxLadiee slayer71289 CrazyxLadiee stargir123 my family would freak... they would prolly act like they were sitting on pins and needles around me or act strange. im just afraid of what they would think of me... im not even sure of what im afraid of ... but i guess for yall to help i need to tell yall why i feel down.. - i feel really retarded at school and my mom and dad expect nothing less than B+ the are both really brainy but the smarts gene wasnt passed to me. it went to my identical twin sister. - i feel unworthy of my boyfriend. he is really nice and wonderful! he is only my second bf so i dont really have that much experience in relationships. im a desprit romantic - i think my family communication problem. we dont always meet eye to eye (well hardly ever) and my mom and dad get mad for just telling them how i feel! - i feel fat im '5'3' and wiegh 98 pounds but but i hate my legs and tummy! they are to soft! i went on a diet but people freaked out! so i had to back to normal. ok so please help me Im pretty much going throught the same thing besides the school and boyfriend part. Dont worry if you weigh 98 pounds at 5'3 your good. I am the same height but i weigh at least 120 puonds. Now thats bad. If no one calls you fat then your not. Like me my parents keep on telling me im fet. ummm, if you're fat, what does that make me? I'm 5' 9", 230 lbs......I'm the 2nd tallest girl the the school...but, I'm the most lovable person you'll ever meet......if the guys would give me a chance, they'd relize that.....17 yrs and never had a bf....how lame is that? Well you are taller. And also i bet you got muscles cause muscles weigh 3 times more than fat. So i guess. Does anyone keep telling you your fat? These people i dont see in like one two months keep telling me "omg your getting fatter" the only people who call me fat are the preppy, girly girls that I don't get along with.....and one of my sisters. and actually....I am pretty muscular for a girl....one time one of my freinds was watching me when I was stretching and they saw my hidden six pack underneath my clothes and slight extra layer of blubber....I got depressed a year and half ago and gained weight over it. now I'm losing that weight like crazy because I'm always active and out and about....never thought my hair would be sun-bleached ever again
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 9:05 pm
stargir123 my family would freak... they would prolly act like they were sitting on pins and needles around me or act strange. im just afraid of what they would think of me... im not even sure of what im afraid of ... but i guess for yall to help i need to tell yall why i feel down.. - i feel really retarded at school and my mom and dad expect nothing less than B+ the are both really brainy but the smarts gene wasnt passed to me. it went to my identical twin sister. I had, and still have, the same problem. After I came out of my depression, I was able to view things in a different light. When I was in my depression, nothing seemed to have any purpose whatsoever, and I lost the will to try. But now that I'm out of the depression, It's easier to find the motivation. I still don't get my sister's perfect straight As, but I find that it doesn't seem nearly so bad now, and after I got councelling, my grades improved rapidly.- i feel unworthy of my boyfriend. he is really nice and wonderful! he is only my second bf so i dont really have that much experience in relationships. im a desprit romantic Okay, so I really have about no experience in this field, but there is one thing I can say: Would he be dating you if he didn't think you were good enough? That he stays with you shows that he thinks that you are. Trust his judgement!- i think my family communication problem. we dont always meet eye to eye (well hardly ever) and my mom and dad get mad for just telling them how i feel! When I went through a depression, I felt the same way, too. I was scared to speak up, scared that I'd be put down for being in a depression. But the thing was, depression is something you can't control. It can spring up anytime, on anyone. Hopefully, your family will understand. It took my family a while, but they did realize this. I suggest councelling- it helped more than I could have ever imagined it would.- i feel fat im '5'3' and wiegh 98 pounds but but i hate my legs and tummy! they are to soft! i went on a diet but people freaked out! so i had to back to normal. You are by no means fat. I'm 5'3" as well,and so I know that you are within the acceptable weight range for this height. You're not high on the scale, and you're not low. You're right in the middle, which is exactly where you should be!
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Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 7:33 pm
haha, short people are the coolest people ever!
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 3:39 pm
Whys that? I love to make fun of my friend cause is shorter than me. But i was joking around. No offense. =/
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 10:03 am
I donno, I think short people are awesome!
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