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PostPosted: Tue Dec 26, 2006 4:30 pm


So, to start off this story,
I'm bi.
And for the last few weeks I've been telling a few of my friends,
then the other night I decided to just get everyone else in one big sweep
by way of a Myspace buletin.
One of those inclueded in the big sewwp was my boyfriend.
Now he won't ******** talk to me.
D:

And for reference here's what happend last:

Bulliten:
Uhm.....
I'm bi.
Lyke srlsy.

. . .
Oh and
Merry Christmas.
Hope you get some cool stuff.
<3

Him:
!?!
...and my soul dies completely.
Thank you for that.
SRSLY

Me:
But...
Why?
;;

Him:
You know what?
No.
Not this time.
PostPosted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 1:18 pm


Here is my very blunt opinion on the matter:

I would assume he does not want to talk to you because:

A. The way you told him was blunt and awkward
B. It's usually something that comes up pretty early on in the relationship or
C. He is a hillbilly and thinks people should only be, or at least pretend to be, straight

I don't know him well enough to say which of those it might be. It also might be something else. Those are just the first three things that came to my mind. People do not typically just wake up one day, decide that they are bisexual, and decide that they need to tell everyone on myspace, so it very well may be the abrupt and, frankly, immature way that you did it. You could try talking to him and about it through email or myspace or whatever. You could just tell him how you feel and why you feel that way as best as you can. If he does not want to reply, fine. You can meet someone else. Just tell people important things like that up front next time and try to do it in a way that looks less silly. Some people really have an issue with stuff like that.

When I meet a guy, there are some things that I tell him almost as soon as I open my mouth because I do not want to waste my time and emotions with someone who might have a problem with it and not want to be with me when they found out later down the road.

LorienLlewellyn

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 6:36 am


I think, you might've just brought it on a little to hard for him.

Not that he should've taken it in like that either.
I really am not sure who's fault this one is.

But, don't take shame on yourself for being what you want to be.

Be yourself, and if he can't handle it, He doesn't know what he's misisng.
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