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Posted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 10:54 pm
I thought I might make a topic to kind of.....kick start this guild.
So a couple months ago, one of the juniors in my Spanish class was telling us a story of how he slept with a male transvestite.
He's still completely confident about his male-ness and is still 100% sure he's straight. So Josh asked him why.
And he said "Well if he wants to be a woman, I'll treat him like one. If I questioned my own sexuality after sleeping with 'her', it would be like denying the fact that 'she's' trying so hard to be a convincing woman."
Now I know that probably didn't make much sense. But I'm sure that's what he said. It's so........rememberable.......if that's a word.
I thought it was pretty nice of him, but at the same time, it was like "What in the world are you talking about, buddy?"
Tk: Don't be so apologetic, this is an inspiring story. Although I changed the title because I didn't want it to trigger any depressing thoughts/feelings for transvestites/transgenders. Also, I think the term transvestite refers to someone who dresses as the opposite sex, whereas transgender refers to someone who in their mind feels it to be right to be, that they are, or strongly want to be the opposite sex, which might be the appropriate term to use.
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 8:33 am
Eh, good for him (your friend, I mean).
Of course, whether sleeping with this person means he had gay sex rather depends on the gender of the other person. If it's a male transvestite, that's one thing; if the person is actually a male-to-female transsexual, that's another. I think it's rather admirable that he sees her as a woman, if that's what her gender is. A lot of straight guys fear and loathe MTFs because they worry that sleeping with one would make them gay.
Gah, labels for sexuality become tremendously confusing when gender-bending enters into the equation.
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 4:33 pm
I agree, how cool of him!! And I agree with Spatterdash too, it does become confusing, but it doesn't matter.
Finally a post ON TOPIC. *COUGHTITOCOUGH* X3
I love you. <3
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Posted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 4:21 pm
wow....thats strange....but yeah, that was nice of him :3
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Posted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 8:03 pm
i say he should not bother with the labels. they make it all more confusing for people.
i agree with spatter, he makes some valid points.
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Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 7:36 am
Just as an FYI to you, Isaac, I'm thinking of moving this thread or deleting it if there's no place for it. I'm not sure it belongs here or where to put it.
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Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 6:24 pm
Okiedokies. ^_^
I don't think anyone's even interested, anyways. xDD
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:34 pm
hmm it depends i guess. was she post-op or pre-op? i mean, you can't really argue about mentality when physicality is staring you in the face.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 12:25 pm
I dunno this is actually kind of interesting. I am very surprised at the way that guy in your friends story handeled himself. Wonder if anyone ever posts here anymore...
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Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 12:54 pm
kaalitenohira hmm it depends i guess. was she post-op or pre-op? i mean, you can't really argue about mentality when physicality is staring you in the face. It was probably pre-op, if it was high school. I can think of very few guys I know who wouldn't really be bothered... and most of them are in long-term commited relationships anyway, so I would hope their not sleeping around... I'd have to beat them xd
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