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 Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 9:11 pm
Hello all! :"D What's shakin'?
I'm here for some much needed advice.
I'm pansexual, and openingly so. Recently, a close friend of mine has been hitting on me and I've been considering asking her out. She's proud of who she is, which is a very important thing for me. She's fun to be with, and I love her.
But I was just talking to my best friend about it and she was trying to convince me not to go out with our friend. She said it would end up in a lot of drama and if I wanted, she'd go out with me. This isn't the first time she's said it, but I always assumed she was joking because as she likes to point out to me, she's strictly straight. Apparently, she meant it this time.
I love her, I do, but she said I wouldn't be able to tell anyone, not even our closest friends.
The problem is, I don't want to have to hide something like that from my friends and I don't want to freak her out by coming on too strong.
So here's the deal:
+I go out with the first girl, hide nothing, but hurt my best friend.
+Go out with my best friend, but end up freaking her out and getting frustrated with hiding it.
or
+Do nothing and end up hurting my best friend anyway.
Any advice? D:
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:45 pm
Oh gawd...
Well, for me, I'd probably choose the first one. It seems as if you'd be happiest there. You love her she seems to return your feelings, and you could be yourself without hiding anything.
Your best friend might get hurt but..oh gawd I'd hate to be in your shoes...
I'm the worst hypocrite for saying this, but worry about you and your feelings.
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