When you and your significant other first met, it was exciting and you just couldn't wait to find out more about the other...then after a time, maybe a few months, or 2.1 years, you look at him and wonder "what was I thinking?" Especially if it has been mostly on you to keep the relationship going...after a while you get tired or bored with being the only gardener. How to keep love going, instead of it ending in tedium and disappointment?
Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 4:26 pm
well i guess you have to find new and other things to do. if that doesnt work, just spend a long time apart and think about your future then regroup and see what you think of should change. maybe ask questions and see what you want out of each other. personally i have no idea, never been in a relationship that long pirate
[DirtyRaccoonPunk]
Offline
DMC_Ebony_Ivory
Offline
Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 3:09 pm
from personal experience, its always good to try new things together. do something neither of you have done before. Skiing, photography, painting, maybe a new position(if you get what I mean). it just takes keeping the relationship going and having fun ^_^