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 Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 9:33 am
i dont know i had my 1st bf last year and he broke up with me because i was always shy around him and stuff.
but know we are in high school and i dont have any classes together! and i think he is avoiding me -_-
i still love him and all but it wouldnt work so pretty much im a lonly loner who deosnt now how to be a gf
-_- so what do i do at the high school i dont know much people and im lonly!
what do i do? im a total desprit romantic!
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Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 2:27 pm
First of all, the first thing you need to know in relationships is that there is no right or wrong way to be a boyfriend and/or girlfriend. I mean, if you love them, you just act the way you do naturally around them.
Also, you should remember that you NEED to know the person before you go out with them. Many times in highschool/middleschool relationships, people go out randomly with others, not even knowing them at first. In fact, who really needs a title? I mean, you get to be good friends, go on a couple of dates and such, and voila! You're boyfriend and girlfriend already.
But, about getting new friends? Join some clubs that interest you! From there, just get friendly with those people, hang out with some of their friends, etc. From the sound of things, you may be kind of shy, but you just need to give yourself a little push and shove, and before you know it, you'll have lots o' friends in no time. :3
The first year of highschool, though, is a total b***h when it comes to friends. heart But I'm sure you'll get through it fine. I have faith in you. ;]
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 6:25 am
Okay, I recieved this in a pm not too long ago. I think that it would be helpful for your problem.
1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
3.The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.
4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
6. You mean the world to someone.
7. If not for you, someone may not be living.
8. You are special and unique.
9. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
10. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.
11. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.
12. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself, probably, sooner or later, you will get it.
13. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.
14. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know.
15. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.
You aren't meant to be alone! You'll find someone out there one of these days. heart
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 7:01 pm
idk its like there seems to be no one like me no same intrests or any thing i feel like an outsider!
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Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2006 11:52 pm
I know the feeling... not so much that there is no one with common interests, but I'm always stuck as the friend. I'm not pretty, I sure as heck ain't skinny...sooooo basically no guy really wants to be with me. But I know that someday, there will be someone out there who accepts me. The moral of the story? You aren't meant to be alone, you'll find someone. You can't rush love. And if you're still in high school, I wouldn't worry, you're still young. I have faith that you won't be alone. ^_^ *hugs*
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Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2006 10:19 am
i've never had a gf... anyways *sighs*
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Moth Wrangler Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2006 3:52 pm
Dateless since '94 and it's saved me a heack of alot of trouble.
Dispite popular beliefs,
You do not need a lover to make you whole.
You just need to know who you are and what you think you want.
As for friends,
They come really naturally.
My best friend was always put into the same group as me because our last names happened to be sixteen names apart in the fourth grade!
Isn't there someone in your classes you find yourself talking to?
I don't know about you,
But I never really knew I had any friends,
They jsut kind of poped up after a while.
Now,
I'm in Middle School,
SO,
My life's easy for these next few years,
But my advice is still pretty reliable.
Oh,
And,
People who draw anime are awesome,
And there's always a club for them somewhere<3
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Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 1:25 pm
I used to by shy around my boyfriends.
Once you've had like two or three. [[ NOT at the same time ]] Then you'll get more used to the holding hands and all that stuff.
But, don't ever let a biy disrespect you. Ever!
[:
So if you feel that something isn't right, let him know, in highschool, everything is different. Guys are more mature, so they'll understand. <33 '
Everyone deserves someone, maybe the right guy just hasn't come along.
I'm still experimenting myself. <3
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Posted: Sat Oct 07, 2006 7:37 pm
ok but here is another thing! iv been on the love waiting list for 4 years since my 1st crush im still at the bottum of the list it seems like! i feel like just friend materal. and my parent and and friends say these high school years shoud be lived to the fullest! iv spent almost every friday night at home watching tv how sad is that its not like im ugly its everything else!
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 7:44 am
the only way to be a girfriend is too bbe yourself. you were yourself, but it didn't work out. so he not the right guy, dont give up! there is a right guy out there. and one more thing, boyfriends are just practice for marrage, its just a starting place! though some will disagree, life is sort of like a game where no one knows all the rules, but one things for sure, the only way to lose is to give up
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