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 Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 1:24 am
Is it bad to use sex to try to make someone stay with you. If you really love them?. What do you think?
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 8:37 am
i would say that it's bad to need to use sex to get someone to stay with you. if that's all you have, then there's a problem.
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Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 9:08 pm
Yeah, well, i guess it doesn't work anyways. My man left me anyways. Things are unpradictable, you can ever controle somebody's actions.
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 10:55 pm
Sex is a tool, like everything else. You have to be wise about the way that you weild it, like anything else. If you're only way of holding on to someone is through sex, then you should be really asking yourself if that relationship is the best for you and the other person at this time. I'm sorry that your are no longer seeing the person that you where, but think of it as an oppertunity to met new people and do things that you might not have been so free to do in that relationship. Good luck to you and all your future relationships!
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 12:24 am
Well, maybe it wasn't all for nothing I guess it showed him that I would always be there for him in more than just his emotional needs.
Today he came running back to me and told me just how much he loves me. Three times we sealed our love and it was amazing. Maybe it's not that you should use sex to keep someone, but use it to show them that you truely do care about them.
Finally, my best friend is now more than just a "Friend with Benefits". And it feels so much better knowing that he is mine. heart
(ps, sorry that this post was kinda korney but i am feelin kinda romantic at the moment sweatdrop )
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 8:28 pm
I don't think its a good idea. If you love them, and that's the only way that they'll stay with you, then they don't love you back, and you'll only end up getting hurt in the long run. As the saying goes, If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it was meant to be. Sex is not a bargaining chip, and should never be used as such.
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 6:13 pm
Yes, but what about if you're not doing it to keep them there, but only to show them just how much you care for them?
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 10:37 am
i guess then you're not doing it to make them stay, it's mutual and it's called making love. unless they are just taking the sex and not giving it. there was this one time, with this one friend, and let's just say that just because you do something because you love somebody doesn't mean they get it or care.
you really gotta make sure he takes it, appreciates it, and gives it back.
and if he does, you've got it made! when there's less stress, there's more orgasms!!
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 11:22 pm
True. I've had a couple of situations where I've put too much effort to try and make it work but recieved nothing in return. You have to know when to wait it out and when to dump it.
In my case, this time at least, waiting it out seemed to pay off. But I think that's mainly due to the fact that I've known him for a long time and I believed that he shared my same emotions. I'm just glad I judged right.
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 4:40 am
Would any nice person please donate 50 gold to me to become a friend for ever question heart
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 6:03 pm
These are sex topics. If you want to spam please use the front page!
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