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 Posted: Fri Jul 28, 2006 9:52 am
I just don't know what to do...my dad is working in ohio while the rest of the family is in indiana and he has been growing farther and farther away. Just the other day he called my mom a fat a** and she called him a " drunk a** mother ********" because my sister was not eating dinner with the rest of the family. My dad also took up smokeing again and he punched my brother in the chest for some petty reason that i don't remember. Luckily my bro will be going to college in the fall. We used to love each other so much...but now my brother hates my dad, i don't like my dad, neither does my sister and our mom talks about him behind his back. I'll be glad when i graduate so i can move out of that horrible place called home.
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Posted: Fri Jul 28, 2006 11:21 am
unfortunately this is so common. i went through this kind of thing as a child. my second little family of sorts is going through this very same thing right now , a handleful of little girls and a little boy...
i guess all i can say is that your brother is lucky, and now you're going to have to be strong. and as cliche as this sounds, it's not your fault. they are adults, whether they act like them at times or not... and relationships are so freaking complicated at any age that the reason they might still be together is that it's hard to let go.
it's not going to go away or stop, and the outcome will most likely break your heart. but you've got to stay in there, and find happiness outside the home. as i remember it, it will be hell. just love your mother, don't choose sides, and stay out if you can. i don't know. this s**t sucks...
i hate immature jackasses!!! scream *that was directed at certain parents i know*
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 12:54 am
i recently went through that to ..but me ,mom and my brother moved out and now everything is kinda alright. except the thing that my dad still stalks me...and that my mom must work 24/7 to get enough money for all our new furnitures...but still i have friends and all that so my life is okay blaugh im like tohru honda,always positive xp
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:24 pm
I hate to say that heteria's point is all too true- these situations hardly ever end happily. There's not much that can be done.
My parents got divorced when I was three. I don't remember much, but my mom said that I used to scratch my face until I bled when i saw them fighting. I bounced between homes for years, hearing far too much trash talk from both sides (and getting more than my fair share of "smacks-upside-the-head" from one side). I ended up with a restraining order against my dad. But I'm incredibly close with my mom now.
The best advice I can give you is be around good friends...But most of all, stay strong.
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