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 Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 1:22 pm
Alrighty then.
So this girl and I went out for three years, and then we broke up 'cause I'm a complete idiot and spilled the beans on something. Lately, it seems like we've been getting closer to being back together. I asked her if we were going to go out, and she said it would be too ackward.
What should Tai-phoon do? D:
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 1:26 pm
Space Panda Alrighty then.
So this girl and I went out for three years, and then we broke up 'cause I'm a complete idiot and spilled the beans on something. Lately, it seems like we've been getting closer to being back together. I asked her if we were going to go out, and she said it would be too ackward.
What should Tai-phoon do? D: Why hello thar, first customer! wink
First things first, what do you mean by "spilled the beans"? What exactly did you do?
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 1:28 pm
We didn't do it, or anything. We barely even kissed. XD
She had. . . Candies with alcohol in them. >>;
And I told my friend, and he was like, "HEY SAM, HOW WAS GETTING DRUNK LAST NIGHT?" in the middle of one of her classes.
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 1:30 pm
Space Panda We didn't do it, or anything. We barely even kissed. XD
She had. . . Candies with alcohol in them. >>;
And I told my friend, and he was like, "HEY SAM, HOW WAS GETTING DRUNK LAST NIGHT?" in the middle of one of her classes. So I'm guessing that she got upset with ou, blamed it on you, and then broke up with you? Or did something else happen?
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 1:31 pm
Shiriken Space Panda We didn't do it, or anything. We barely even kissed. XD
She had. . . Candies with alcohol in them. >>;
And I told my friend, and he was like, "HEY SAM, HOW WAS GETTING DRUNK LAST NIGHT?" in the middle of one of her classes. So I'm guessing that she got upset with ou, blamed it on you, and then broke up with you? Or did something else happen? That's pretty much it. XD
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 1:40 pm
Space Panda Shiriken Space Panda We didn't do it, or anything. We barely even kissed. XD
She had. . . Candies with alcohol in them. >>;
And I told my friend, and he was like, "HEY SAM, HOW WAS GETTING DRUNK LAST NIGHT?" in the middle of one of her classes. So I'm guessing that she got upset with ou, blamed it on you, and then broke up with you? Or did something else happen? That's pretty much it. XD Did you tell her you side of the story, or something along those lines?
If so, even if not, if she wants to as well, you can give it another go. But from what I'm hearing, most likely she's not going to want to even attempt to try it again. Perhaps if you have a very lareg school, you can find someone else you like. My best advice is, maybe you should try other girls. :] Or guys. Whatever you want. xD
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 1:45 pm
Shiriken Space Panda Shiriken Space Panda We didn't do it, or anything. We barely even kissed. XD
She had. . . Candies with alcohol in them. >>;
And I told my friend, and he was like, "HEY SAM, HOW WAS GETTING DRUNK LAST NIGHT?" in the middle of one of her classes. So I'm guessing that she got upset with ou, blamed it on you, and then broke up with you? Or did something else happen? That's pretty much it. XD Did you tell her you side of the story, or something along those lines?
If so, even if not, if she wants to as well, you can give it another go. But from what I'm hearing, most likely she's not going to want to even attempt to try it again. Perhaps if you have a very lareg school, you can find someone else you like. My best advice is, maybe you should try other girls. :] Or guys. Whatever you want. xD
Okay. Thankies for the advice. :]
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Posted: Mon Jul 24, 2006 1:56 pm
I have a few questions first, provided you haven't already fixed this problem.
First, how long has it been since you two broke up? Three years is a long time to date someone particularly when you're in highschool or younger. (Which I'm assuming you are. Correct me if I'm mistaken.)
Is she a very good friend to you? Like has your contact with her been constant or are you just starting to talk to her now?
From what you described as the reason she broke up with you, it would seem she cares more about what the classroom thinks than she cares about her relationship with you. Harsh, I know, but I try to be realistic. Perhaps you could try asking her now that it's over if there were other factors in her breaking up with you than just that incident. There may have been more going on than you know. Even though this may not help you get back together, at least maybe it will help ease your mind a little.
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 12:48 pm
Paansu I have a few questions first, provided you haven't already fixed this problem. First, how long has it been since you two broke up? Three years is a long time to date someone particularly when you're in highschool or younger. (Which I'm assuming you are. Correct me if I'm mistaken.) Is she a very good friend to you? Like has your contact with her been constant or are you just starting to talk to her now? From what you described as the reason she broke up with you, it would seem she cares more about what the classroom thinks than she cares about her relationship with you. Harsh, I know, but I try to be realistic. Perhaps you could try asking her now that it's over if there were other factors in her breaking up with you than just that incident. There may have been more going on than you know. Even though this may not help you get back together, at least maybe it will help ease your mind a little. Wo-ooo-w Paansu, you're really good! :O!!
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 2:12 pm
Thank you. ^^
This is kinda what I want to do as a career so I like to practice. :3
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 2:58 pm
That's awesome...well, I wish you luck~ do what, exactly?
A councelor of some sort?
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 4:32 pm
A therapist or councelor, yeah. The only thing I'm really good at is helping people talk through their problems and articulating my thoughts and advice well. So I figure why not. x3
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 7:40 pm
Paansu I have a few questions first, provided you haven't already fixed this problem. First, how long has it been since you two broke up? Three years is a long time to date someone particularly when you're in highschool or younger. (Which I'm assuming you are. Correct me if I'm mistaken.) Is she a very good friend to you? Like has your contact with her been constant or are you just starting to talk to her now? From what you described as the reason she broke up with you, it would seem she cares more about what the classroom thinks than she cares about her relationship with you. Harsh, I know, but I try to be realistic. Perhaps you could try asking her now that it's over if there were other factors in her breaking up with you than just that incident. There may have been more going on than you know. Even though this may not help you get back together, at least maybe it will help ease your mind a little. We're in ninth grade right now. XD
We've always been very close. We first met in third grade. But, there was a three month period after we broke up where we didn't even say a word to eachother. And it's been almost a year since then.
Good point, but the main reason was that she thought that her mom could have gotten arrested, which would be all my fault. XD
Well, an update on all of this: I went over to her house the other day to hang out, and we ended up making a movie with her brother. So, when I was about to leave, I walked out the door, she followed me. When I turned around to say something, she was standing smiling at me. I said, "What's up?" Then she came down from the porch and gave me a hug. Then, once I got home, I got on MSN and said, "Thanks for the hug. :]" Then she said, "XD Your lucky that I only did that. I wanted to molest you. Your hair was sexy!" Because I just dyed it a few days ago.
So, now what? XDDD
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 9:08 pm
Space Panda Paansu I have a few questions first, provided you haven't already fixed this problem. First, how long has it been since you two broke up? Three years is a long time to date someone particularly when you're in highschool or younger. (Which I'm assuming you are. Correct me if I'm mistaken.) Is she a very good friend to you? Like has your contact with her been constant or are you just starting to talk to her now? From what you described as the reason she broke up with you, it would seem she cares more about what the classroom thinks than she cares about her relationship with you. Harsh, I know, but I try to be realistic. Perhaps you could try asking her now that it's over if there were other factors in her breaking up with you than just that incident. There may have been more going on than you know. Even though this may not help you get back together, at least maybe it will help ease your mind a little. We're in ninth grade right now. XD
We've always been very close. We first met in third grade. But, there was a three month period after we broke up where we didn't even say a word to eachother. And it's been almost a year since then.
Good point, but the main reason was that she thought that her mom could have gotten arrested, which would be all my fault. XD
Well, an update on all of this: I went over to her house the other day to hang out, and we ended up making a movie with her brother. So, when I was about to leave, I walked out the door, she followed me. When I turned around to say something, she was standing smiling at me. I said, "What's up?" Then she came down from the porch and gave me a hug. Then, once I got home, I got on MSN and said, "Thanks for the hug. :]" Then she said, "XD Your lucky that I only did that. I wanted to molest you. Your hair was sexy!" Because I just dyed it a few days ago.
So, now what? XDDD
Well, it's obvious that she likes you hair....but girls can be weird about stuff like that sometimes! @^@ Don't get too excited about it, if you haven't talked to each other in almost a year (that's right, right?), I think it'd be nest not to jump into things too quickly. Take it slow-www~~anything else you could tell me? What did you think when she said this? Did you respond? If so, what did you say? surprised
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 8:27 am
Nono, Shiriken. They didn't talk for 3 months, and he said it's been a year since then. So it seems to me that he said after the 3 months, they started talking again, and now it's been a year.
Right? O_o
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