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 Posted: Sun Jul 16, 2006 4:57 pm
I heard on here you can spill your guts and feel better. Ok here is my story.
Some time ago I was just a guy that didn't want women and didn't care for anyone. Women wanted me and I thought life was ok...then I met her (on the internet). We became quick friends and soon after had feelings for her. On Valentines day I did something I thought I could never do...I confessed that I had feelings for her. She said yes, and that she had feelings for me too. We soon fell in love and she did call me her soul mate. I have never had compassion for anyone but her.
My problem is that its hard to contact her because her foster mother is literally trying to make her life worse however possible.
Her mother has told me that her foster mother is keeping her. the f. mother has ran from her real parents when they were winning in a trial thing and then the f. mother put a false assault thing on her parents so her parents cannot see them.
The f. mother has tried keeping the children against their will and use them. They were supposed to be their for a year or so, so they can figure their parents out but their f. mother wants to keep them.
The f. mother says she is very Christian but she doesn’t forgive and is like evil itself. Think of Harry Potter’s foster parents but a lot worse.
She is working till 11 PM to stay away from her f. mother, I’m not even sure if she is able to keep her money. Her f. mother has taken her stuff.
I feel so bad that she cannot have a normal life. She is in pain and I feel sad that she is sad. It’s like a poisonous dagger in me and I believe worse for her.
Also, if the court hears about me being her boyfriend and her mother trying to contact her then things could get bad quick!
Her real mother is fine with me and her father is cool with me too.
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Posted: Sun Jul 16, 2006 6:59 pm
You're right, you can spill all you want, and if anyone were to flame you, they would be banned. domokun <-- Domo Kun would eat them
I know how you feel, I couldn't care less about the oppisite gender until I found my guy over the net. He has foster parents, he makes them out to be bad people, but they're not. I whole heartedly believe your girlfriend's are though. How old are the both of you? Until you both are 18 I don't see a lot that you could do. Have you expressed how you feel she is being treated to her real parents? If not, you should. They could possibly be able to re-open up the case without mentioning you. They could say a different source. I'm sorry to hear about everything, please feel free to contact me if you need anything. I have all my information on the mod contact page. Hope everything goes well.
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Posted: Sun Jul 16, 2006 8:00 pm
I met my girl over the net... i had feelings for people but the people in my town used me... i dont know how you feel but i know that internet relationships work a-hell-of-alot better... haha... well sounds to me like you got a problem there, i think that maybe you should keep the relationship on a down low untill she can move in with you (when shes 18 )... if she is already 18, then let her move in with you... no matter what it takes... if yall dont have the money, save up the money and if she cant keep her money, mail or do a money order to her so she gets the money to help her come to you... its what im doing for my gf on her 18th bday... my parents dont want me with her cuz she is 18 and im 15 so its a felany to even make-out... but we will do whatever the hell we want cuz it'll be private and what we want... just do what you want and what you think is best... if you love her... save the money and mail it to her so she can move in with you.... if any other mod disagree's with me, feel free to delete my post
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Posted: Mon Jul 17, 2006 12:20 am
First of all, I think that the first thing she should do is get out of this pickle. If she pleads in court, things would go much, much differently, I'd think. I'm not much about the legal system; I didn't have alot of choice in mine. But, worst comes to worst, I'd just play the ol' "b***h" card. The squeaky wheel gets the oil, after all. Have her give her sap story to the officials about how much she misses her parents and how cold her step-mother is to her, and how she doesn't even get to keep her own wages that she simply TOILS to make every day!
That might help a bit.
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Posted: Mon Jul 17, 2006 7:09 pm
Laeluu First of all, I think that the first thing she should do is get out of this pickle. If she pleads in court, things would go much, much differently, I'd think. I'm not much about the legal system; I didn't have alot of choice in mine. But, worst comes to worst, I'd just play the ol' "b***h" card. The squeaky wheel gets the oil, after all. Have her give her sap story to the officials about how much she misses her parents and how cold her step-mother is to her, and how she doesn't even get to keep her own wages that she simply TOILS to make every day!
That might help a bit.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 10:12 pm
No; you don't understand what I said, I don't think, dear. This advice was for you to give to her.
If she does stuff like that, chances are that she WILL be with her biological mother. heart
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 10:03 am
Laeluu No; you don't understand what I said, I don't think, dear. This advice was for you to give to her.
If she does stuff like that, chances are that she WILL be with her biological mother. heart
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 12:52 am
I don't have much time right now, so I will be simple, blunt, and plain:
Love is patient and Love is steadfast. Love endures. Love protects.
If you really do love her, and I think you do, then you will love her forever. I don't know her age, but she can't be that young. Soon enough she will be 18 and her foster mother is out of the picture.
Go with the court thing. The Justice System really does work, despite my critics. I would not, however, recommend doing anything illegal. That will only add to the foster mother's case.
For the record, if you do something illegal, the whole bloody lot of us can get accused for accessories and/or aiding in a crime/felony. My record is clean and will remain thusly.
Off the record, do what your heart says. I'm sure we can talk our way out of the law. I can claim religious sanctuary. I'm sure insanity would work for the rest. Hehe.
Go with God, my child.
Godspeed,
Saint Cody
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