its a bit long... sorry about that! sad
heres a question:
okay, ive been going out with this guy for about a month and 3 days- weve been friends for a long time, so we diecided to hook up. now, we both do some crazy things like run around like ninjas/kunoichis on december 5th when its insanely cold. anyway. friday we went out to go eat, though it was my parents 15th anny, they let him come anyway. now, i normally dont eat much, and neither does he. so we both ate, just to make my parents happy. and my parents are difficult people. my dads from philly, so he has a bit of an attatiude. and my moms a real bugger, she always has to have her way, theres not much of a choice but to agree because its best not to fight.... because it gets kinda scarey. my parents were never really home, and they dont exactly know me, my little brother doesnt really care too much whats going on. so he would always just be like 'yeah whatever'
anyway.
yesterday- he was going to sleep over his friends house with another friend. (theyre all guys, and there are 3 people, just so no one gets confused.) now, they got into a bit of trouble with his friends parents. they were playing with bottle rockets or something and they got mad. they couldnt go back to my boyfriends house because his parents were sleeping and locked him out- and his friends parents kicked him out and the other kid's parents werent even home. so he asked if they could crash at my house. im like 'okay.' because we have extra rooms and such. i didnt want them to sleep out on the road, because they would get hit by a car or something. well, my mom said no, and my dad was at work. my mom yelled at me for about an hour and a half about who knows what. so i wasnt happy, he wasnt very happy, and my mom was alredy on the phone telling her bestfriend how much of a... errmmm... yeah... i am. so i got really mad, but didnt say anything. it was pritty cold that night, and weve been getting lots of rain because of those tropical storms/depressions out in the ocean. it rained last night, and got cold. so i was worried because people cant drive too well in the rain. he almost got hit by a car, and my mom was all like 'thats a short story' and he called me this morning and he sounded sick, and quite sad. now, were not emo kids, but were not cold hearted either.
so he asked to come over this morning. my mom said 'wait for your dad to wake up' and he thought she was really mad at him for asking to crash over my house that night. my mom kinda thinks he drinks and smokes weed. but ive known him for a very very long time. and its not like him to do stuff like that, i mean sure we've done many stupid things, but we're not that stupid. hes a good guy really, hes in a band and hes atletic. but i dont understand why my mom must be such a meanie. she probably says really mean things to him whenn im not around or something, because he doesnt seem too happy around her. what should i do??? my family and my boyfriend dont get along- and we've tried pratically everything to get them to like him atleast a little bit more!
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