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 Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 8:38 pm
This thread is basically about the concept and Idealogy of love and lust and whether or not you can have only one or both in a relationship with someone whether it be short or long.
I personally think that it is very possible to be incredibly lustful with someone you love and be completely devoted to them with your heart. I'm polyamorous; meaning I have no qualms about going out with more than one person at a time. But if there is someone I care about deeply, my heart is theres yet i can still be as lustful as I want. ( Mind you i tell those who date me that I am poly first. )
What is all of your OPs?
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 9:04 pm
^_^ I think that it is very possible in a polygamist relationship to have both lust and love. I mean, its an odd concept to think that you will only love one person forever. If that were true then you obviously wouldn't have ever lost a relationship you believed you were in love in. Polygamy in my view is just fine, and if I were to date someone who is poly, all I would be concerned with is that they use safe sex practices EVERY time. ^.^ I mean, its almost contraditory to nature to have only one partner, so you should be able to have lustful or loving feelings towards more than one person in my opinion. ^_^ Of course, that is merely my opinion and many will disagree. Personally, I would have no problem dating someone who is poly, in either lust or love. I am just understanding is all if it is out front first. I mean if you go constantly under the guise of a monogomus relationship and then cheat behind ones back, that isn't right in my view. But if you say out front that you are poly, then I would have no real problem with it. ^_^ This is an excellent topic I might add, I am ashamed I hadn't posted it first.
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 9:39 pm
I believe you can have love and lust in a relationship, whether it be poynomial or not, as long as you keep one in balence with the other wink
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 9:44 pm
Major Methuselah I believe you can have love and lust in a relationship, whether it be poynomial or not, as long as you keep one in balence with the other wink ^_^ Well put Met-chan. ^.^ whee heart
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 9:56 pm
Xellos14 Major Methuselah I believe you can have love and lust in a relationship, whether it be poynomial or not, as long as you keep one in balence with the other wink ^_^ Well put Met-chan. ^.^ whee heart
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:01 pm
Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah I believe you can have love and lust in a relationship, whether it be poynomial or not, as long as you keep one in balence with the other wink ^_^ Well put Met-chan. ^.^ whee heart I was going to post a topic like this, but I was beaten to it. ^_^ What do you think of my post? or is it too long to keep your attention to read? xd I get that alot sometimes, if I make a sort-long post its more ignored than anything else xd
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:05 pm
Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah I believe you can have love and lust in a relationship, whether it be poynomial or not, as long as you keep one in balence with the other wink ^_^ Well put Met-chan. ^.^ whee heart I was going to post a topic like this, but I was beaten to it. ^_^ What do you think of my post? or is it too long to keep your attention to read? xd I get that alot sometimes, if I make a sort-long post its more ignored than anything else xd
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:07 pm
Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah I believe you can have love and lust in a relationship, whether it be poynomial or not, as long as you keep one in balence with the other wink ^_^ Well put Met-chan. ^.^ whee heart I was going to post a topic like this, but I was beaten to it. ^_^ What do you think of my post? or is it too long to keep your attention to read? xd I get that alot sometimes, if I make a sort-long post its more ignored than anything else xd ^_^ Thats to be expected, which parts did you agree with and which parts did you disagree with? 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:11 pm
Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah I believe you can have love and lust in a relationship, whether it be poynomial or not, as long as you keep one in balence with the other wink ^_^ Well put Met-chan. ^.^ whee heart I was going to post a topic like this, but I was beaten to it. ^_^ What do you think of my post? or is it too long to keep your attention to read? xd I get that alot sometimes, if I make a sort-long post its more ignored than anything else xd ^_^ Thats to be expected, which parts did you agree with and which parts did you disagree with? 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:13 pm
Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Thankies, Lance-chan xd heart I was going to post a topic like this, but I was beaten to it. ^_^ What do you think of my post? or is it too long to keep your attention to read? xd I get that alot sometimes, if I make a sort-long post its more ignored than anything else xd ^_^ Thats to be expected, which parts did you agree with and which parts did you disagree with? 3nodding Ah I see. ^.^ I personally don't think you have anything to be insecure about, but I can see your reasoning behind that. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:15 pm
Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Thankies, Lance-chan xd heart I was going to post a topic like this, but I was beaten to it. ^_^ What do you think of my post? or is it too long to keep your attention to read? xd I get that alot sometimes, if I make a sort-long post its more ignored than anything else xd ^_^ Thats to be expected, which parts did you agree with and which parts did you disagree with? 3nodding Ah I see. ^.^ I personally don't think you have anything to be insecure about, but I can see your reasoning behind that. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:17 pm
Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah There's some parts I agree with and others I don't ^^;; ^_^ Thats to be expected, which parts did you agree with and which parts did you disagree with? 3nodding Ah I see. ^.^ I personally don't think you have anything to be insecure about, but I can see your reasoning behind that. 3nodding Oh I see. ^.^ Kewl. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:21 pm
Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah There's some parts I agree with and others I don't ^^;; ^_^ Thats to be expected, which parts did you agree with and which parts did you disagree with? 3nodding Ah I see. ^.^ I personally don't think you have anything to be insecure about, but I can see your reasoning behind that. 3nodding Oh I see. ^.^ Kewl. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:23 pm
Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Well, for one, I could never date someone who was poly ^^;; I'm too insecure, and I need all the attention I can get xDD Ah I see. ^.^ I personally don't think you have anything to be insecure about, but I can see your reasoning behind that. 3nodding Oh I see. ^.^ Kewl. 3nodding awww, I am sorry to hear that u.u I wouldn't let something like a girl being clingy to me break our relationship >< it just shows she cares sad
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:25 pm
Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Xellos14 Major Methuselah Well, for one, I could never date someone who was poly ^^;; I'm too insecure, and I need all the attention I can get xDD Ah I see. ^.^ I personally don't think you have anything to be insecure about, but I can see your reasoning behind that. 3nodding Oh I see. ^.^ Kewl. 3nodding awww, I am sorry to hear that u.u I wouldn't let something like a girl being clingy to me break our relationship >< it just shows she cares sad
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