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 Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 11:03 am
My mom makes me do everything, and when I don't do it she calls me lazy. The lazy one is her, because she won't just get up and do it herself, even when she's in a good postition to do so. She's always giving me a large number of things to do, go get this, be part of this class, do that, it's driving me insane! When I ask her about it she says 'Tough, deal with it.' or 'You'll like it, trust me.'. Can't she understand that as the 13-year-old that I am that I need some time to myself and not doing community service?
My Dad, however, is different. He doesn't understand the things that I'm going through right now, and always sides with my mom on things. I can never talk to either of them, because they believe that 'this will help me get healthier'. So what if my freind(Who's only 70 pounds for some bizarre reason) is thinner, and more athletic than me! I WANT SOME TIME TO MYSELF!
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 1:58 pm
..Did you ever try to just sit them down and talk to them? My mom makes me do so much stuff to her... then one day I wrote her a really long poem.. We started getting along a lot more. :3; But try talking to them either one on one or together, through words, or poems... heart
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 4:27 pm
This might be kind of desprate, but ask your mom why she thinks you're so lazy. And that, if you're so lazy, then why do you do all the work 'round the house? If she keeps on pestering you, just don't do anything. She'll find out how much she actually needs your help.
About all those classes, your own signiture is required on all of those papers as well. If you don't want to take it, you don't have to. Personally, it was one of the hardest things in my life dropping one of my Honors classes, but I did it. :]
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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 2:37 am
If your parents won't listen to you, it may be a good idea to write them a letter. You should state everything you feel you need to say to them in a letter, because it's probably better than talking to them. When you're talking, they can interuppt you or tune you out or such; with reading, they can't yell at you or argue back to what you're trying to say. So yeah, a letter might be a good path to take.
I hope I've helped and things get better for you. heart
Lolle
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 3:38 pm
Angel_of_battle My mom makes me do everything, and when I don't do it she calls me lazy. The lazy one is her, because she won't just get up and do it herself, even when she's in a good postition to do so. She's always giving me a large number of things to do, go get this, be part of this class, do that, it's driving me insane! When I ask her about it she says 'Tough, deal with it.' or 'You'll like it, trust me.'. Can't she understand that as the 13-year-old that I am that I need some time to myself and not doing community service? My Dad, however, is different. He doesn't understand the things that I'm going through right now, and always sides with my mom on things. I can never talk to either of them, because they believe that 'this will help me get healthier'. So what if my freind(Who's only 70 pounds for some bizarre reason) is thinner, and more athletic than me! I WANT SOME TIME TO MYSELF! do you have any brothers or sisters?
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Posted: Sat Jul 22, 2006 6:53 pm
Then make time.
Tell them you REALLY need time to YOURSELF.
Maby theay will listen.
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