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I personally feel that you should wait to have sex until after you're married, and only with that person (or other wise, it's against the law! ...I think. I'm sure it is here in South Carolina). It's the best gift you can give your husband or wife...yes, better than a toaster. razz

i don't think it should be illegal, but for everything else i say agreed

well ya, but you can get legally married and have a priest with nothing fancy for next to nothing. you don't need a big elegant wedding that costs thousands of dollars to get married.

IncrediblyObligatoryName, you're a virgin at heart, right? smile You surely can't help being raped!

eh yeah something like that. sex can be fun. healthly whatever but if you can save it for someone special and if u cant .....have fun with it!!!!!! but be safe about it. a guilt complex does come with sex....guy like to sue people.....expesically when you get good at it. most of thema re in it for the p***y dont always give them what they wont. by a vibartor masturbate but dont just screw every guy you meet cause he his a big d**k n says he like syou.

I believe it's important to wait until your married, because that's what the word of God tells us. It's a choice we all have to make though ourselves. I personally didn't date in highschool, because I knew any relationship that I had there wasn't going to last. Now I found someone special and we're looking into getting married, neither of us have ever dated before, much less had sex. Now I was molested when I was younger and I can tell you that going after sex would not have been the therby I needed or need. I needed to know I was still okay. I'm happy right now, because the relationship I have now is based on God and not on sex or hyped up emotions.

I'm really just rambling on, my thoughts are not very organized which I'm reather ashamed about but not enough to go and fix them. Lol. But I know that sex is a very intimate thing. It's something that's special, and when you find that special someone you want to give everything you have to them. But by dating and sleeping with others you loose a part of your heart to that person, and you can't get it back. That's why I choose to stay away from that. Because I wanted to offer my spouce the entire me and nothing less. Yes a part of me was taken away, but with God's help I was able to battle and over come the pain and hurt that caused me.

First Base = Kissing. You know making out, grinding up agaisnt each other while your toungs are shoved into each others mouths because you know thats the only entry you're going to get. Uhh yeah.

Second Base = Under clothes but over underwear. Like feeling up over the bra and up her shirt, dry humping with nothing but undewar on. Rubbing her through her panties.

Third Base = Almost but not quite sex. Stuff like getting a b*****b or a hand job. Eating her out. Anything that doesnt involve incertion of a p***s.

Home = Sex. If I have to explain what sex is... Yeah.