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PostPosted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 10:01 am


Erk. The ex is back again. I reset AIM and somehow accidentally unblocked the ******** time I decided to be intelligent and try to trap his a**, maybe pull some harassment charges on him. The convo ended up going like this.
salvation6921 (11:34:20 PM): ?
ddrtisthershey (11:34:43 PM): Question mark right back at ya.
salvation6921 (11:35:02 PM): who r u
ddrtisthershey (11:35:35 PM): The ********? I didn't IM you, you moron. You can't face me on your real screen name, don't fake not knowing who I am.
salvation6921 (11:36:54 PM): ok u can tell your 15 year old bf/gf who thinks he/she is 25 to come find me
ddrtisthershey (11:37:16 PM): So you do know who I am.
ddrtisthershey (11:37:27 PM): ...You fail...
salvation6921 (11:37:46 PM): come on u think that i am that wasted?
ddrtisthershey (11:37:55 PM): You're drunk again? Hah.
salvation6921 (11:38:05 PM): no!
ddrtisthershey (11:38:43 PM): XD. So then, who am I, since you obviously know who I am even though you asked.
salvation6921 (11:38:51 PM): so hows the life of a tweaker?
ddrtisthershey (11:39:11 PM): How's the life of an alcoholic moron?
salvation6921 (11:39:35 PM): why don't u ask ur bf!
ddrtisthershey (11:39:42 PM): He doesn't drink.
salvation6921 (11:40:06 PM): oh yeh i forgot he's only 15
ddrtisthershey (11:40:15 PM): ...moron....
ddrtisthershey (11:40:20 PM): You're the *****, not me.
salvation6921 (11:40:55 PM): really why do u say that?
ddrtisthershey (11:41:07 PM): I've heard your history.
salvation6921 (11:41:15 PM): its not like i asked to ******** u
ddrtisthershey (11:41:31 PM): I was legal.
salvation6921 (11:41:33 PM): good i have nothing to hide
ddrtisthershey (11:42:03 PM): Like the harrassment charges, the girls who "begged" to give you a b*****b? Hah.
ddrtisthershey (11:42:18 PM): Dating jailbait senior year?
salvation6921 (11:42:50 PM): really have u been talking to my ex's?
ddrtisthershey (11:43:11 PM): Nope. But you've been stalking me.
ddrtisthershey (11:43:20 PM): And I know enough about you.
salvation6921 (11:43:24 PM): hows that
salvation6921 (11:43:34 PM): i go to work!
ddrtisthershey (11:43:39 PM): Good for you.
salvation6921 (11:43:39 PM): every day
ddrtisthershey (11:43:43 PM): Yeah, yeah.
salvation6921 (11:43:59 PM): and what prof do u have
ddrtisthershey (11:44:06 PM): And of course there's some other person who would flame my livejournal and spell as shittily as you do...
ddrtisthershey (11:44:17 PM): Did I mention the LJ logged your IP address?
salvation6921 (11:45:10 PM): i'm not the only one who uses this comp>
ddrtisthershey (11:45:40 PM): Oh really.
salvation6921 (11:46:55 PM): why would i be stalking u?
ddrtisthershey (11:47:08 PM): Cause you're obsessed.
ddrtisthershey (11:47:17 PM): You said you wanted me back.
salvation6921 (11:47:20 PM): with what?
ddrtisthershey (11:47:27 PM): You kept trying to stay friends with me.
salvation6921 (11:47:41 PM): no i did not u did
ddrtisthershey (11:47:44 PM): And you stalk me through my friends.
ddrtisthershey (11:47:49 PM): Oh really? I have the chatlogs.
salvation6921 (11:48:42 PM): who r ur friends so i will know who they are so i don't talk to them
ddrtisthershey (11:48:58 PM): You know who my friends are.
salvation6921 (11:49:07 PM): no i don't
ddrtisthershey (11:49:32 PM): Who do you talk to that you know has been my friend?
salvation6921 (11:49:56 PM): ryan
ddrtisthershey (11:50:04 PM): Whozat?
salvation6921 (11:50:08 PM): but he hates u with a passion
ddrtisthershey (11:50:16 PM): Who the hell is that?
salvation6921 (11:50:28 PM): jay thinks u are a phyco
salvation6921 (11:50:51 PM): so i don't know who ur frinds r!
ddrtisthershey (11:50:56 PM): sure you do.
ddrtisthershey (11:51:07 PM): You just make up s**t to try and make me feel bad. (:
salvation6921 (11:51:21 PM): not really
salvation6921 (11:51:37 PM): it just comes naturl
salvation6921 (11:51:41 PM): lol
salvation6921 (11:52:41 PM): so screw any one over lately
ddrtisthershey (11:53:00 PM): Nope. I bet you have though.
salvation6921 (11:53:10 PM): nope
ddrtisthershey (11:53:16 PM): In fact, I've never screwed anyone over.
salvation6921 (11:53:33 PM): u did your parents
ddrtisthershey (11:53:38 PM): Really.
salvation6921 (11:53:44 PM): yep
ddrtisthershey (11:53:51 PM): What, exactly?
salvation6921 (11:54:04 PM): moving out
salvation6921 (11:54:14 PM): for starters
ddrtisthershey (11:54:16 PM): Yeah? Well, I'm home.
salvation6921 (11:54:34 PM): for how long this time
ddrtisthershey (11:54:48 PM): As long as I want.
salvation6921 (11:55:35 PM): really
ddrtisthershey (11:55:54 PM): Yeah.
ddrtisthershey (11:56:26 PM): Why not?
salvation6921 (11:56:39 PM): ?
ddrtisthershey (11:56:58 PM): Why wouldn't I stay as long as I want?
salvation6921 (11:57:10 PM): don't know
salvation6921 (11:57:18 PM): pot head?
ddrtisthershey (11:57:30 PM): I don't smoke.
salvation6921 (11:57:35 PM): bs
ddrtisthershey (11:57:43 PM): I don't. I quit.
salvation6921 (11:57:49 PM): bs
ddrtisthershey (11:57:58 PM): Wanna run a drug test?
salvation6921 (11:58:11 PM): not really
salvation6921 (11:58:25 PM): u lie so much i don't care
ddrtisthershey (11:58:30 PM): Oh really?
ddrtisthershey (11:58:36 PM): I don't lie, actually.
salvation6921 (11:59:06 PM): what do u think u did to alex when he was around?
ddrtisthershey (11:59:13 PM): You are Alex. (:
salvation6921 (11:59:18 PM): no
ddrtisthershey (11:59:45 PM): Kay. Why did Alex sign off just as you signed on?
salvation6921 (12:00:05 AM): he didn't
ddrtisthershey (12:00:07 AM): And you type just like him! What a coincidence.
ddrtisthershey (12:00:14 AM): Really. I know my buddy list.
salvation6921 (12:00:18 AM): yep
salvation6921 (12:00:38 AM): thats not his any moer
ddrtisthershey (12:01:01 AM): XD. His Gaia account still has it as his AIM.
salvation6921 (12:01:03 AM): he does not live around here any more
ddrtisthershey (12:01:16 AM): XDDDD. You know I've seen him around.
salvation6921 (12:01:27 AM): he gave all that to his cousin
salvation6921 (12:01:43 AM): so u r stalking him
ddrtisthershey (12:01:47 AM): Nope
ddrtisthershey (12:01:59 AM): I have friends that say they see you.
ddrtisthershey (12:02:05 AM): biggrin
salvation6921 (12:02:32 AM): because his cousin has been complaning about a strange girl following him
ddrtisthershey (12:02:42 AM): Actually, I haven't seen him. (:
ddrtisthershey (12:02:48 AM): Not once.
salvation6921 (12:02:59 AM): really
salvation6921 (12:03:14 AM): you just said that u did
ddrtisthershey (12:03:34 AM): I don't count seeing him at school for 5 seconds as stalking.
ddrtisthershey (12:03:58 AM): I avoid him anyway. I'm over it.
salvation6921 (12:04:31 AM): look he came around to see his best friend who is having a baby
ddrtisthershey (12:04:37 AM): Sure.
ddrtisthershey (12:04:47 AM): And all the friends of mine he's talked to?
ddrtisthershey (12:04:55 AM): On different days?
salvation6921 (12:06:04 AM): like who cause he lives neare pearce college
ddrtisthershey (12:06:22 AM): People who go to ElCo and live near me.
salvation6921 (12:06:58 AM): really
ddrtisthershey (12:07:14 AM): Yep.
ddrtisthershey (12:07:56 AM): So, he would have to be in the Torrance area.
salvation6921 (12:08:03 AM): nope
ddrtisthershey (12:08:10 AM): Really.
ddrtisthershey (12:08:27 AM): I trust my friends more than someone I don't know... Unless you're Alex.
ddrtisthershey (12:10:43 AM): But, you're not him, so I can't trust you.
salvation6921 (12:11:21 AM): look i have work tomarrow if u want to talk to him u can call his cell [number removed]
ddrtisthershey (12:11:36 AM): I don't want to talk to him.
ddrtisthershey (12:11:42 AM): That would be stalking wouldn't it?
ddrtisthershey (12:11:51 AM): And, That's a 310 area code.
ddrtisthershey (12:11:58 AM): Meaning near here.
salvation6921 (12:12:16 AM): from what it looks like u two need to talk
ddrtisthershey (12:12:21 AM): Nope.
ddrtisthershey (12:12:29 AM): I have no interest in talking to him.
salvation6921 (12:12:35 AM): and that phone # he got here
salvation6921 (12:12:54 AM): i got it for him
ddrtisthershey (12:13:01 AM): If he wants to talk to me, that's his problem. I don't want to talk to him.
salvation6921 (12:13:36 AM): i'm just trying to let u know that he hates u
ddrtisthershey (12:13:47 AM): I don't think much of him either.
salvation6921 (12:14:03 AM): he gave up his im because of u
ddrtisthershey (12:14:07 AM): And I don't give a s**t if he worships me or hates my guts.
salvation6921 (12:14:45 AM): he was really despret that is why he went out with u
ddrtisthershey (12:14:50 AM): If he hates me, then why would you give him my number?
salvation6921 (12:14:51 AM): that is all
ddrtisthershey (12:14:58 AM): Or his number, to me.
salvation6921 (12:15:34 AM): u look like u have some issues that u need to deal with
ddrtisthershey (12:15:57 AM): I know I do. But, I'm dealing with them. And they don't affect either you or Alex.
salvation6921 (12:16:13 AM): i think it is better to talk than to talk behind some ones back!
ddrtisthershey (12:16:31 AM): What have I said about him?
ddrtisthershey (12:16:46 AM): I haven't talked s**t about him.
salvation6921 (12:16:47 AM): it seams they do cause u won't leave him alone
ddrtisthershey (12:16:58 AM): Actually, I haven't even tried to contact him.
salvation6921 (12:17:31 AM): ddrtisthershey (11:39:52 PM): How's the life of an alcoholic moron?
ddrtisthershey (12:17:34 AM): You started this convo, if I remember right?
salvation6921 (12:17:44 AM): ddrtisthershey (11:41:01 PM): You're the *****, not me.
ddrtisthershey (12:17:51 AM): That was to YOU.
salvation6921 (12:17:52 AM): ddrtisthershey (11:41:48 PM): I've heard your history.
ddrtisthershey (12:18:09 AM): Not behind anyone's back. (:
salvation6921 (12:18:14 AM): ddrtisthershey (11:42:44 PM): Like the harrassment charges, the girls who "begged" to give you a b*****b? Hah.
ddrtisthershey (11:42:59 PM): Dating jailbait senior year?
ddrtisthershey (12:18:27 AM): And that was directly to you.
salvation6921 (12:18:55 AM): look i am not alex for the last time
ddrtisthershey (12:19:08 AM): At the time you were acting like him.
salvation6921 (12:19:17 AM): maby u should take ur meds again
ddrtisthershey (12:19:22 AM): salvation6921 (11:41:15 PM): its not like i asked to ******** u
salvation6921 (12:19:44 AM): he is right here
salvation6921 (12:19:52 AM): thats why
ddrtisthershey (12:20:07 AM): So, at the time I was talking to him and not behind his back.
salvation6921 (12:20:26 AM): right but now u are
ddrtisthershey (12:20:54 AM): Am I saying anything directly about him? No. I'm saying that I don't give a s**t, and don't want to contact him.
salvation6921 (12:21:51 AM): good then tell your scumbag friends to leave him the ******** alone or u will be sorry
ddrtisthershey (12:22:15 AM): Is that a threat?
salvation6921 (12:22:26 AM): no a promis
salvation6921 (12:22:46 AM): look u ever heard of a jail cell
ddrtisthershey (12:22:48 AM): Otherwise known as a threat.
ddrtisthershey (12:23:03 AM): Yeah. I know what a jail cell is.
salvation6921 (12:23:20 AM): good do u want to live in one?
ddrtisthershey (12:23:27 AM): Why?
salvation6921 (12:23:34 AM): just answer
ddrtisthershey (12:23:50 AM): And why would I be in jail?
salvation6921 (12:24:05 AM): it is called harrasment
ddrtisthershey (12:24:23 AM): Really.
ddrtisthershey (12:24:33 AM): Who started this conversation again?
salvation6921 (12:24:40 AM): he has eye witness that will say that he has not been around u
ddrtisthershey (12:24:46 AM): Have I been making attempts to contact either of you?
salvation6921 (12:25:25 AM): maby not u but all of ur so called friends have
ddrtisthershey (12:25:49 AM): Actually, they haven't. None of them want to be around you.
ddrtisthershey (12:26:24 AM): They claim you came up to them.
ddrtisthershey (12:27:07 AM): Anyway, you have to work tomorrow, why are you still talking to me?
salvation6921 (12:27:36 AM): like C00N3Y
salvation6921 signed off at 12:27:40 AM.


Kay. Couple side notes for anyone who read that whole thing:
1) "jay", aka J, is one of my best friends. He doesn't think I'm a psycho, or he wouldn't hang with me so much. He's also the one Alex has been trying to stalk me through. He keeps telling Alex he never sees me anymore.

2)No, I don't believe that I was talking to two different people. I believe that it was Alex pretending to be someone else... because of how he talked, the chatspeak, and the slow typing.

3)Yes, I could have blocked him, but he keeps coming back with new names, so I wanted to just slam him for once and for all.

4) My LJ did NOT log his IP address, I was trying to trap him there.

5) Tweaker: The ******** believes I'm still on drugs. o.O

Anyone who can give me advice, I'd be really grateful. Thanks for reading the whole thing. I seriously appreciate it. <3
PostPosted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 11:16 am


That took me 15mins to read.

I'd say just don't even talk or look at him, try and get some proof that he always makes the move on you. Try and get him done for harrasment, I think you can get him for it but I'm not sure of laws in other countries.

Sorry not much help.

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MirelleNyo

PostPosted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 11:21 am


WTF? eek
PostPosted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 11:39 am


MirelleNyo
WTF? eek
Exactly. It's been months... he needs to ******** give up. =/

I realized that the chatspeak bugs me almost more than the harassment. D:

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Samo666

PostPosted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 2:51 pm


Wow. He's really obsesed with you. Get rid of him. Tell him that its over, and any further connections will never happen. Including conversation wise.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 3:42 pm


I'd say that if you're serious about pullin harassment charges, get as much evidence as you can, and pull as much info out of him on those conversations as it's possible, and then print it all out as evidence. Maybe you could get some sort of a restraining order, hmm.

Love SCUBA Steve


Destruction Kitty

PostPosted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 6:02 pm


D: My little brother is named Alex, I don't want him sharing his name with somebody like THAT.

Goddamn. Yeah, try to get some sort of restraining order or something. That conversation gave me the creeps, and the chatspeak just made it even worse.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2005 3:06 pm


I don't know how you would get a restraining order, but I do know you can get one that applies to internet use, because they have found *****, sex offenders, and sexual harassers online, and have applied restraining orders to online stuff. I'll look it up for you.

lvngembrs
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Fail

PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2005 3:31 pm


lvngembrs
I don't know how you would get a restraining order, but I do know you can get one that applies to internet use, because they have found *****, sex offenders, and sexual harassers online, and have applied restraining orders to online stuff. I'll look it up for you.
I don't care about a RO.

I want to nail the ******** for harrassment. It's about revenge now.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2005 3:53 pm


h3rsh3y
lvngembrs
I don't know how you would get a restraining order, but I do know you can get one that applies to internet use, because they have found *****, sex offenders, and sexual harassers online, and have applied restraining orders to online stuff. I'll look it up for you.
I don't care about a RO.

I want to nail the ******** for harrassment. It's about revenge now.


I don't think it can be harassment until you've asked him to leave you alone, and he doesn't. You did do that though, so it should be fine.

Love SCUBA Steve


Fail

PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2005 4:04 pm


X[phucket]X
h3rsh3y
lvngembrs
I don't know how you would get a restraining order, but I do know you can get one that applies to internet use, because they have found *****, sex offenders, and sexual harassers online, and have applied restraining orders to online stuff. I'll look it up for you.
I don't care about a RO.

I want to nail the ******** for harrassment. It's about revenge now.


I don't think it can be harassment until you've asked him to leave you alone, and he doesn't. You did do that though, so it should be fine.
I have told him to ******** off so many times.... ><

So yeah, I think it'd count.
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