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EDIT:since someone told me i should have a thread and just put stuff on there...i wil.so this will be my entry.

dad:so jessica you have a boyfriend right?
me:right
dad:so here's what your going to do. you don't go and get up and play your violin without getting lessons. so i want you to go online to get top 10 ways for safe sex and show them to me so you know what your doing
al0n3 t0gether: oh yeah
al0n3 t0gether: cause you know
al0n3 t0gether: that's us
al0n3 t0gether: god
al0n3 t0gether: that's retarded
al0n3 t0gether: i'm gong to call him and tell him how stupid my family is being over him
al0n3 t0gether: godd what retarddsssss
just 2seemebleed: lol
just 2seemebleed: dies laughing
al0n3 t0gether: that's ******** retarded
al0n3 t0gether: you know me ryan
al0n3 t0gether: that's ridiculous
al0n3 t0gether: he doesn't relaize i'm not going to do that
just 2seemebleed: lol i know
al0n3 t0gether: and i mean
al0n3 t0gether: that's upsetting
al0n3 t0gether: there my parents
al0n3 t0gether: there supposed to knwo me
al0n3 t0gether: your just my friend but you know me better than they do..it's ******** ridiculous

taking your friends know you better than your parents to a whole new level

My parents just told me that they hoped me n Eddy weren't into "heavy petting".... when I'm 16 I bet my mum will get me the pill for my birthday!

You parents sound like the laziest people on earth. He should just tell you to use a condom instead of all this added stupidity. Kick him in the hards. eek

When I had sex for the first time, my mom found out (I'm not sure how) and she took me out for dinner to talk to me about it. Yeah right, like I defenitely want my mom to talk to me about sex in a public place... anyway, it was terrible. She pretty much made me go on the pill, which is good, but it was so embarrasing.

My mom just said " Wear your raincoat" xd

And its better than not getting a talok from your parents. At least they show they care enough to make sure you're being safe. And without that talk, you might be careless one day and end up getting an STD or something. So appreciate what they give you, and don't b***h about it so much.

i thought i should put this up to show that there are some good people still here on earth:

I didn't know that about your parents baby. I wish now that I could spend more time with you to heal the scars that your parents have left you. I'll tell you what, let's start seeing each other like everyday or every other day if possible. I want to be there for you, I want to hear your problems ( and I ask the same for you) and try to help you solve them together. while I really hoped your mom changed her view on me, Im kinda relieved that your day knows about me, then just being brushed off by your mom. I cannot understand how your dad thinks that way about you. I mean you are gentle and patient, not imprudent and impatient. I want to say that I will love you no matter what your parents say. as for "that", the choice is totally yours, and I agree that we should be 100% confident with each other about this. to be honest, I think I have been a bad boyfriend for being there when you needed me. I don't want to say Im on a guilt trip, but these past few month must've been hard on you. Im sorry I have been so careless. But I promise this, I will be there to council you, and give you my shoulder when your problems get out of hand. If you ever need something fast, call me late in the night, and I'll answer for sure. My parents don't hate you like i thought they did. as a matter of fact, they got my back, and say to be happy with you. So for prom baby, let's have the best time we can have for two days. I love you beyond the words that are written in this letter.
Love you always and warmly,


Erich
hello. i wanted to tell you that i forgot to say thank you for being there
for me and going through that whole thing yesterday. i know i could have
called you but i was online so i thought this'd be easier. i know i don't
have to say sorry but it's a habit so i want to say i'm sorry for being
silent earlier today while i was on the phone with you. i was trying to say
how my dad was being ridiculous about us but i was to embarassed to say
it..i know you said yesterday how it seems like we've been together for a
long time but to me it still seems relativly new and i still feel like i'm
getting to know you. and so me still learning to trust people in general
through you is like i said really hard for me but i am bit by bit doing it
more. so back to dad when he got home the first thing that he says to me is
you have a boyfriend right? so i said right and he said well you know what
you need to do? just like playing the violin you don't just pick up and do
it it takes lessons to get you to do that so you need to go online and look
up ten ways to have safe sex. and sure it sounds normal i guess but to me
it was more..he's known about you for a long time but he all of a sudden
assumes that were going to just be all over each other which troubles me. i
mean you know i'm not like that and ryan knows i'm not like that but my dad
doesn't. it was just really troubling because he's supposed to know that and
more about me.he's supposed to know me and he doesn't.and i know i talk
about my parents ALOT but they really have left alot of emotional wounds on
me that are starting to become real problems. it's become so hard with me to
deal with these problems that i have been trying to help myself and calling
the local crisis hotline so i can keep my promise to you and not harm myself
again. and they are really helping me.and i cannot thank you enough for you
being there for me and being considerate and letting me vent it out to you
when i do. it means the world to me. i mean i don't say it alot but i really
do apperciate you and love you. and i hope you know that.while i'm getting
this whole thing out i think since you've been so wonderful i should stop
being silent and tell you why i don't really want to be more intimate with
you more than we are now. and it has nothing to do with me not loving you
less. it's more i feel we should be 100% comfortable with each other..and i
mean i'm comfortable with you and your comfortable with me that we can
openly tell each other anything and everything that's bothering us and are
really connected before we do this..being honest you know were not there yet
which in my opinion is nothing bad and it will in time get better.but right
now i feel like were 60-70% comfortable with each other, though that
percentage is growing.i mean i've always had this idea of not wanting to do
it before marriage but truth be told if we are really 100% comfortable with
each other i wouldn't have a problem with doing it..so there's your anserw
why i always stop you.because i feel that we are not ready yet. once again i
hope you know i love you to death and aperciate all that you've done for me
and none of this was against you or anything and i'll talk to you latter.

love you more than i can express in words,
jess

*hides in a corner*

I actually talk pretty openly about sex with my parents. Sometimes my mom gets a little wierd about it, but I bring it up on my own. Maybe I like to watch my mother twitch.

And I don't screw much, but I like being on the pill, because it makes my periods lighter. Sorry If I just made any guys uncomfortable...

i've never been on the pill or anything i'm a virigin..how old are you? and wel the thing isn't about the whole sex talk becase we've talked about it multiple times before it's just another hurtful sign that my dad doesn't know me and my friends and boyfriends know me more than him and it shouldn't be that way.