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Celtic Pirate

PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 7:17 pm


I think I might be falling for my really close friend. She makes me feel on top of the world and she's the greatest person I know. My only problem is that I can't say anything not even to her. My parents would kill me. My mom is full christian and thinks that anyone who is lesbian/gay/bi will go to hell. I couldn't tell her. I can't tell my friend because I don't know if she feels the same way. I didn't even consider myself to possibly be lesbian until I figured out I might really like her. I wouldn't even be lesbian, i'd be bi cause I still like guys too. Every thing is just so confusing right now. Any advice would be appreciated.
PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 7:49 pm


Please I need someone to say something! Someone to say it's okay. I'm so scared and I'm all alone and to afraid to speak.

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PostPosted: Sat May 27, 2006 11:03 am


I don't know if I can help at all, but do you know what her sexuality is? Is she straight, bi or lesbian? If you found out what her sexuality is, then you could mention if she likes you, and go from there...

Try not to worry about what your parentes would think, because if you do, you will not be happy. You won't be able to enjoy life to the fullest if you worry about little things. If you want my opinion, your parents are close-minded. If they won't accept it, it's their problem, not yours. They either will come around and accept it, or they won't. There's not really anything to be done that can change peoples minds.

I know I'm not the greatest helper, but... I try.. ^^; I just hoped that helped a little tiny bit..

Just know that there are many people going through things like that. I did aswell.. ^^;;  
PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 6:57 pm


Thanks for the advice. I'm still really nervous about telling her. I can't seem to talk about it around her. I know she doesn't have any problem with LGBTs but as far as I know she's straight. That would be my luck. Now I'm trying to get the courage to tell my other close friend, practically sister, about my being bi. I don't know quite how she'll accept it but I want her to know.

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Celtic Pirate

PostPosted: Wed Oct 25, 2006 12:44 pm


I finally told her! Turns out she likes me too. We started going out yesterday. ^.^ Thanks for the help. I know it was the right thing to do.
PostPosted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 12:56 am


Haha. Good for you guys!

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 07, 2011 3:54 pm


crying Ohk... it went well for you, so can I get help? Im unsure, i think im lez or bi, idk! anyways, i think i like my friend, shes not that close of a friend tho... about to be my friend on fb. Im confused and nervous about it, my mom wouldnt care, shes also not christian... help!!? crying
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