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 Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 5:59 pm
I'm currently a 138 lb feeder. But... I really enjoy food. I've thought about becoming a feedee or a foodee or just a gainer. I just don't know how my boyfriend would like it. He's a big guy, but I don't know if he'd like me better the way I am. (If I asked him he'd say "I'll love you no matter what")
So I want to ask you guys: What are the ins and outs of being fat or fluffy? Do you think I should sacrifice what I have to become Gainer? 0_o
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Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 7:09 pm
Well, I think you should do what you feel comfortable with and if he doesn't like it, find you another man. You see, I made the mistake years ago of constently sacrificeing my own happiness to please others only to find that they were never pleased. You need to do whats right for you first.
Please yourself first and you shall grow in happiness and wealth (and hopefully size ^_^).
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Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 9:04 pm
So... I haven't been here in a looong time...
But! Here's what I think.
If you want to gain the weight, and you'd feel comfortable at that weight, I say go for it. I wouldn't suggest gaining too much weight though, because it can have serious health complications. If you can do it and still be healthy, and you want to gain the weight... You go girl!
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Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 10:23 pm
Diego the Incubus Well, I think you should do what you feel comfortable with and if he doesn't like it, find you another man. You see, I made the mistake years ago of constently sacrificeing my own happiness to please others only to find that they were never pleased. You need to do whats right for you first. Please yourself first and you shall grow in happiness and wealth (and hopefully size ^_^).
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 9:39 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 6:33 pm
How about eating what you like, and doing whatever exercise you feel comfortable with as well? That way, you may gain the weight, but you won't gain as much. Find a middle ground, if that's what you want. Although, I'm personally of the opinion that exercise is just something to do when you don't have anything else to do, and that food is art. I wouldn't enjoy cooking half as much if I didn't eat as much of my meatloaf with italian tomato sauce and parmasean cheese or homade mac and 5 cheeses as I wanted. mrgreen
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 6:50 pm
Orissia How about eating what you like, and doing whatever exercise you feel comfortable with as well? That way, you may gain the weight, but you won't gain as much. Find a middle ground, if that's what you want. Although, I'm personally of the opinion that exercise is just something to do when you don't have anything else to do, and that food is art. I wouldn't enjoy cooking half as much if I didn't eat as much of my meatloaf with italian tomato sauce and parmasean cheese or homade mac and 5 cheeses as I wanted. mrgreen
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 10:00 pm
Feedee isn't a postition (see my Definitions thread), it's a trait, a quality. A feedee is aroused by overeating and gaining weight, whether they actively do or not.
That said, you should do what you like. If your boyfriend really doesn't care, enjoy yourself. Do you have a reason why you want to stay thin, other than being unappealing to the man who if he is telling the truth won't be turned off by it?
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 10:02 pm
Fuzzy Necromancer Feedee isn't a postition (see my Definitions thread), it's a trait, a quality. A feedee is aroused by overeating and gaining weight, whether they actively do or not. That said, you should do what you like. If your boyfriend really doesn't care, enjoy yourself. Do you have a reason why you want to stay thin, other than being unappealing to the man who if he is telling the truth won't be turned off by it?
It's more like, would I be happy with myself? How would my family see me? I dunno...If I were to do it, I'd need encouraging or at least someone to tell me I'm still pretty. XD
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 10:24 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 10:57 pm
Fuzzy Necromancer Well, I'm pretty sure that we're all up to that task. 3nodding This article might be of some help http://www.geocities.com/doctorfeeder/dtgf.html
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