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 Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 10:21 am
When I was 16 I began dating a guy that was (well and still is xd )bipolar. when our relationship started hitting some turbulence I started to freak out a little and decided to join another website that has support groups for people with family or loved ones with bipolar. About 2 years after we started I broke up with him cuz the way he decided to deal with it was not a path I was willing to take. After that the support group wouldn't talk to me any more. I think they might have been offended one told me that they had a mother who was BP and she saw it as a cop-out. She said she couldn't just throw her mother away like did him. What do you think?
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 1:30 pm
First off... Gah. As far as I can tell, you broke up with him because of his actions, not cause he was bipolar.
And, just because someone's bipolar doesn't mean you have to stay with them forever. I mean, we can deal with breakups just like anyone else.
I'm on your side there.
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 1:37 pm
h3rsh3y First off... Gah. As far as I can tell, you broke up with him because of his actions, not cause he was bipolar.
And, just because someone's bipolar doesn't mean you have to stay with them forever. I mean, we can deal with breakups just like anyone else.
I'm on your side there. ~nods~ same here, I would've done the exact same thing. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 7:46 am
Azerath Demoness h3rsh3y First off... Gah. As far as I can tell, you broke up with him because of his actions, not cause he was bipolar.
And, just because someone's bipolar doesn't mean you have to stay with them forever. I mean, we can deal with breakups just like anyone else.
I'm on your side there. ~nods~ same here, I would've done the exact same thing. 3nodding Cool. i'm still friends with him. actually he drove 2 hours one way to pick me up from college and bring me home last weekend. the break up was dificult but i think we are both on the mend.
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 12:53 am
Yeah man, you broke up with him because he was making bad decisions, and obviously the 2 years you had of dating him didnt matter much when you refused to take his path.
You were protecting yourself... it's understandable.
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 6:31 am
knuckle_toes Yeah man, you broke up with him because he was making bad decisions, and obviously the 2 years you had of dating him didnt matter much when you refused to take his path. You were protecting yourself... it's understandable. trust me the two years mattered. i had to accept that there are certain things a person can't handle. Certain problems i couldn't fix. He was and still is a good person he just couldn't control his actions or his addiction. check out my story: I'm Glad Your Alive. it is also a guild post.
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Some Lesser Demon Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 2:31 pm
Das_Naughty! knuckle_toes Yeah man, you broke up with him because he was making bad decisions, and obviously the 2 years you had of dating him didnt matter much when you refused to take his path. You were protecting yourself... it's understandable. trust me the two years mattered. i had to accept that there are certain things a person can't handle. Certain problems i couldn't fix. He was and still is a good person he just couldn't control his actions or his addiction. check out my story: I'm Glad Your Alive. it is also a guild post. You think there's a chance of you getting back with him?
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 10:03 am
Some Lesser Demon Das_Naughty! knuckle_toes Yeah man, you broke up with him because he was making bad decisions, and obviously the 2 years you had of dating him didnt matter much when you refused to take his path. You were protecting yourself... it's understandable. trust me the two years mattered. i had to accept that there are certain things a person can't handle. Certain problems i couldn't fix. He was and still is a good person he just couldn't control his actions or his addiction. check out my story: I'm Glad Your Alive. it is also a guild post. You think there's a chance of you getting back with him? That was the hardest part about this whole situation. If he would have left me i would have closure. i know he still loves me and i know he would, at anytime, drop everything to be with me. Even if he was datign someone else. the hard thing was knowing he felt that way and knowign that you owe it to your self not to get back with him no matter how you feel. Right now i'm datign someone else. Before i had nothing to compair it to. he was my first boyfriend. I needed to know what a health nonabusive relationship was like before i desided if i really wanted to get back together.
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