My mum's partner is before my too but that is like right before (literally a month before..) so i count before his anyway....

I do not know what i am doing this year though... except mum decided to go to Eastney Tavern for my birthday... (why not go on HIS birthday??) maybe i will have a word with mum befoe then... mind you though.. they're pasta looked nice.. XD (i saw somebody have pasta.. which is strange because i did not see it on the menu.. hm.. maybe i will look again..)