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 Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2022 6:05 pm
in the past 12 days I have lost a niece to a horrific bike accident, My Mother was admitted to a hospital and within four days my sister and I had to find an assisted living home for her. We barely got Mom settled then we get a call that my Mother in law has had a stroke and we are now having to put her in HOSPICE care. She is not expected to last the week. What he freakin hell is going on? Too much in a short period of time
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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2022 9:29 pm
My heart breaks for you.
I am so terribly sorry to hear all this happening to you and your family.
Be strong my friend,
and know you have the support and love of so many around you,
& the AMG
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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2022 10:31 pm
Oh my gosh mama_bearr. It's like things all happen at once sometimes. My heart goes out to you
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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2022 11:12 pm
It's like when it rains it pours sad and it is too much to have to go through.. just one of these things would break your heart ... but you are strong and you are taking care of the people you love the best that you can ..and i know they love you for it and would be lost without you ... i have only been through a glimpse of what you are going through and do not know that i could hold a candle to you my lady .. i am glad you have family there with you to help and stand by your side .. I am praying for you and for your family ...hold on to each other emotion_bigheart ( hugs) wish I could help sad
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2022 6:06 am
Pink Fregia My heart breaks for you.
I am so terribly sorry to hear all this happening to you and your family.
Be strong my friend,
and know you have the support and love of so many around you,
& the AMG Thank you. I have great support and everything that needs taken care of is getting done. It is just a lot all at the same time with no breaks in between and I am still taking care of my clients as well. We will get through this time.
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2022 6:08 am
Syd_Sage Oh my gosh mama_bearr. It's like things all happen at once sometimes. My heart goes out to you Thank you. We have great friend and family support. Our family always think of things ahead of time and are prepared.
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2022 6:12 am
babyyyme2005 It's like when it rains it pours sad and it is too much to have to go through.. just one of these things would break your heart ... but you are strong and you are taking care of the people you love the best that you can ..and i know they love you for it and would be lost without you ... i have only been through a glimpse of what you are going through and do not know that i could hold a candle to you my lady .. i am glad you have family there with you to help and stand by your side .. I am praying for you and for your family ...hold on to each other emotion_bigheart ( hugs) wish I could help sad
Thank you my friend. We already had MIL's final arrangements done and paid for before she went in to assisted living and know her requests so we are prepared. I just needed to blow off some steam and rant for a bit. Thanks for listening.
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2022 7:29 am
dear mam bearr , i am here for you hun heart
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2022 10:52 am
mama_bearr babyyyme2005 It's like when it rains it pours sad and it is too much to have to go through.. just one of these things would break your heart ... but you are strong and you are taking care of the people you love the best that you can ..and i know they love you for it and would be lost without you ... i have only been through a glimpse of what you are going through and do not know that i could hold a candle to you my lady .. i am glad you have family there with you to help and stand by your side .. I am praying for you and for your family ...hold on to each other emotion_bigheart ( hugs) wish I could help sad
Thank you my friend. We already had MIL's final arrangements done and paid for before she went in to assisted living and know her requests so we are prepared. I just needed to blow off some steam and rant for a bit. Thanks for listening.
I am lucky to be a friend smile and you know I am here( or around) for you to vent on/with anytime you need me for sure ... Just remember to take the time to breathe when it feels overwhelming ,it does help ... i hope bear is ok .. I was not there when my grandma passed and i think God that she had a lot of the family there on her last day ,she got to have them in her room because she had been put on Hospice ..even tho she was on a lot of pain meds i feel like she knew they where all there with her she was responding to them as they held her and spoke to her .. How is your niece at this point ??? and your kids , how are they with all this going on ???
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2022 8:51 pm
babyyyme2005 mama_bearr babyyyme2005 It's like when it rains it pours sad and it is too much to have to go through.. just one of these things would break your heart ... but you are strong and you are taking care of the people you love the best that you can ..and i know they love you for it and would be lost without you ... i have only been through a glimpse of what you are going through and do not know that i could hold a candle to you my lady .. i am glad you have family there with you to help and stand by your side .. I am praying for you and for your family ...hold on to each other emotion_bigheart ( hugs) wish I could help sad
Thank you my friend. We already had MIL's final arrangements done and paid for before she went in to assisted living and know her requests so we are prepared. I just needed to blow off some steam and rant for a bit. Thanks for listening.
I am lucky to be a friend smile and you know I am here( or around) for you to vent on/with anytime you need me for sure ... Just remember to take the time to breathe when it feels overwhelming ,it does help ... i hope bear is ok .. I was not there when my grandma passed and i think God that she had a lot of the family there on her last day ,she got to have them in her room because she had been put on Hospice ..even tho she was on a lot of pain meds i feel like she knew they where all there with her she was responding to them as they held her and spoke to her .. How is your niece at this point ??? and your kids , how are they with all this going on ???
My niece did not survive the bike accident. She was hit from behind and pushed in to oncoming traffic. MIL has been unconscious for the past three days. She will be transported to Hospice care Saturday. Bear is driving up to pick up her siblings so they can say good bye. Busy phone day organizing nurses, transportation and family. All arrangements are set. I have kept the kids up to speed on what's going on. They are a little surprised at how fast things are happening We have dinner reservations with friends Sat night taking a ferry to our favorite restaurant
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Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2022 12:35 am
Hello Mama_Bearr
I am so sorry so much is happening all at once. It has got to be a struggle dealing with so much at once. I am sorry about the death of your niece. I am so very sorry about the stroke your MIL has had. cry . We all love you and are here to support you and listen. If there is anything I can do please do not hesitate to ask. *HUGS*
We all care about you Mama_Bearr and we are here to support you. heart heart
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Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2022 2:45 am
mama_bearr babyyyme2005 mama_bearr babyyyme2005 It's like when it rains it pours sad and it is too much to have to go through.. just one of these things would break your heart ... but you are strong and you are taking care of the people you love the best that you can ..and i know they love you for it and would be lost without you ... i have only been through a glimpse of what you are going through and do not know that i could hold a candle to you my lady .. i am glad you have family there with you to help and stand by your side .. I am praying for you and for your family ...hold on to each other emotion_bigheart ( hugs) wish I could help sad
Thank you my friend. We already had MIL's final arrangements done and paid for before she went in to assisted living and know her requests so we are prepared. I just needed to blow off some steam and rant for a bit. Thanks for listening.
I am lucky to be a friend smile and you know I am here( or around) for you to vent on/with anytime you need me for sure ... Just remember to take the time to breathe when it feels overwhelming ,it does help ... i hope bear is ok .. I was not there when my grandma passed and i think God that she had a lot of the family there on her last day ,she got to have them in her room because she had been put on Hospice ..even tho she was on a lot of pain meds i feel like she knew they where all there with her she was responding to them as they held her and spoke to her .. How is your niece at this point ??? and your kids , how are they with all this going on ???
My niece did not survive the bike accident. She was hit from behind and pushed in to oncoming traffic. MIL has been unconscious for the past three days. She will be transported to Hospice care Saturday. Bear is driving up to pick up her siblings so they can say good bye. Busy phone day organizing nurses, transportation and family. All arrangements are set. I have kept the kids up to speed on what's going on. They are a little surprised at how fast things are happening We have dinner reservations with friends Sat night taking a ferry to our favorite restaurant
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Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2022 6:51 am
angelic snow angel Hello Mama_Bearr
I am so sorry so much is happening all at once. It has got to be a struggle dealing with so much at once. I am sorry about the death of your niece. I am so very sorry about the stroke your MIL has had. cry . We all love you and are here to support you and listen. If there is anything I can do please do not hesitate to ask. *HUGS*
We all care about you Mama_Bearr and we are here to support you. heart heart
Thank you for your support. It was a bit overwhelming at first now it is just constant phone calls organizing everything and taking care of my Mom's apt. I really appreciate the good wishes.
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Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2022 7:09 am
babyyyme2005 mama_bearr babyyyme2005 mama_bearr babyyyme2005 It's like when it rains it pours sad and it is too much to have to go through.. just one of these things would break your heart ... but you are strong and you are taking care of the people you love the best that you can ..and i know they love you for it and would be lost without you ... i have only been through a glimpse of what you are going through and do not know that i could hold a candle to you my lady .. i am glad you have family there with you to help and stand by your side .. I am praying for you and for your family ...hold on to each other emotion_bigheart ( hugs) wish I could help sad
Thank you my friend. We already had MIL's final arrangements done and paid for before she went in to assisted living and know her requests so we are prepared. I just needed to blow off some steam and rant for a bit. Thanks for listening.
I am lucky to be a friend smile and you know I am here( or around) for you to vent on/with anytime you need me for sure ... Just remember to take the time to breathe when it feels overwhelming ,it does help ... i hope bear is ok .. I was not there when my grandma passed and i think God that she had a lot of the family there on her last day ,she got to have them in her room because she had been put on Hospice ..even tho she was on a lot of pain meds i feel like she knew they where all there with her she was responding to them as they held her and spoke to her .. How is your niece at this point ??? and your kids , how are they with all this going on ???
My niece did not survive the bike accident. She was hit from behind and pushed in to oncoming traffic. MIL has been unconscious for the past three days. She will be transported to Hospice care Saturday. Bear is driving up to pick up her siblings so they can say good bye. Busy phone day organizing nurses, transportation and family. All arrangements are set. I have kept the kids up to speed on what's going on. They are a little surprised at how fast things are happening We have dinner reservations with friends Sat night taking a ferry to our favorite restaurant
Don't worry about the confusion. It was an easy mistake. There is so much to do I haven't had time to think which is a good thing I guess. I appreciate all the support and good wishes. Thank you.
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Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2022 8:09 am
mama_bearr angelic snow angel Hello Mama_Bearr
I am so sorry so much is happening all at once. It has got to be a struggle dealing with so much at once. I am sorry about the death of your niece. I am so very sorry about the stroke your MIL has had. cry . We all love you and are here to support you and listen. If there is anything I can do please do not hesitate to ask. *HUGS*
We all care about you Mama_Bearr and we are here to support you. heart heart
Thank you for your support. It was a bit overwhelming at first now it is just constant phone calls organizing everything and taking care of my Mom's apt. I really appreciate the good wishes.
sending peace and safe feelings your way my friend emotion_hug
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