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 Posted: Tue Apr 16, 2019 6:19 am
How your life has changed ?
20 vs 30
30 vs 40 etc. I don't know razz the extend of gaians age here.
I'm turning 29 soon.. It's close to 30 sweatdrop . I remember when I was in my mid-twenties. I was going through a mid-life crisis . My expectations were too high. I read some articles of people going through mid 20s crisis and that people are happier in their 30s because they know what they want.
For me, it didn't change much.
I was a full-time student in my 20s + I worked a few year full-time.
Near my 30s I'm still a full-time student (because of career change) but I work part-time.
There are days that I don't really like myself.
There are days that I hate the world.
I think I feel less lonely, because everyone is busy including myself. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2019 9:10 am
Hello we have a huge diverse of ages in the guild. Our oldest member is in the 70's. We have people in every single age group in the guild.
I loved being in my 20's and traveled all the time, but turning 30 is a different thing. I settled down'
I do not think age has anything with hating yourself I think that happens with all ages. Just depends on the circumstance.
The world is very very screwed up and it is easy to hate the world. But one thing I got from traveling is there are so many beautiful places in this world.
Yes being busy sure helps with being lonely. But I can still work all day have kids and feel really alone. Its like missing a part of your life you want added to your life. Its really easy to be in a relationship and feel alone let me tell you.
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Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2019 12:17 pm
I miss being in my 20's and 30's ( i was healthy back then) . now I am 46 and have alot wrong with me it seems
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Posted: Mon May 27, 2019 12:20 pm
Honestly, comparing my early 20's to my mid 20's? (Turning 26 next month)
I wish I could go back to my early 20's a do it all over again. I was pretty wild and had a lot of fun but since getting married I'm very vanilla. I sometimes miss those wild days but enjoy how much I've grown.
I wish i could take my personality now and put it back into my early 20 me and regrow from there. I'd make different choices and try to reconnect with people sooner rather than later.
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Posted: Mon May 27, 2019 12:34 pm
Cheshire Echos Honestly, comparing my early 20's to my mid 20's? (Turning 26 next month) I wish I could go back to my early 20's a do it all over again. I was pretty wild and had a lot of fun but since getting married I'm very vanilla. I sometimes miss those wild days but enjoy how much I've grown. I wish i could take my personality now and put it back into my early 20 me and regrow from there. I'd make different choices and try to reconnect with people sooner rather than later. yeah im the same way since i got married almost 5 years ago . i just wish that i had friends to go visit
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Posted: Mon May 27, 2019 12:37 pm
I just wish I had friends. haha I sometimes feel like married life can be so boring but maybe that's just our relationship strider rose Cheshire Echos Honestly, comparing my early 20's to my mid 20's? (Turning 26 next month) I wish I could go back to my early 20's a do it all over again. I was pretty wild and had a lot of fun but since getting married I'm very vanilla. I sometimes miss those wild days but enjoy how much I've grown. I wish i could take my personality now and put it back into my early 20 me and regrow from there. I'd make different choices and try to reconnect with people sooner rather than later. yeah im the same way since i got married almost 5 years ago . i just wish that i had friends to go visit
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Posted: Mon May 27, 2019 12:38 pm
Cheshire Echos I just wish I had friends. haha I sometimes feel like married life can be so boring but maybe that's just our relationship strider rose Cheshire Echos Honestly, comparing my early 20's to my mid 20's? (Turning 26 next month) I wish I could go back to my early 20's a do it all over again. I was pretty wild and had a lot of fun but since getting married I'm very vanilla. I sometimes miss those wild days but enjoy how much I've grown. I wish i could take my personality now and put it back into my early 20 me and regrow from there. I'd make different choices and try to reconnect with people sooner rather than later. yeah im the same way since i got married almost 5 years ago . i just wish that i had friends to go visit your not alone in that ... *hugs*
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Posted: Mon May 27, 2019 12:39 pm
strider rose Cheshire Echos I just wish I had friends. haha I sometimes feel like married life can be so boring but maybe that's just our relationship strider rose Cheshire Echos Honestly, comparing my early 20's to my mid 20's? (Turning 26 next month) I wish I could go back to my early 20's a do it all over again. I was pretty wild and had a lot of fun but since getting married I'm very vanilla. I sometimes miss those wild days but enjoy how much I've grown. I wish i could take my personality now and put it back into my early 20 me and regrow from there. I'd make different choices and try to reconnect with people sooner rather than later. yeah im the same way since i got married almost 5 years ago . i just wish that i had friends to go visit your not alone in that ... *hugs* *hugs back* I'm sorry you're in the same spot. It's not fun at all
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Posted: Mon May 27, 2019 12:40 pm
Cheshire Echos strider rose Cheshire Echos I just wish I had friends. haha I sometimes feel like married life can be so boring but maybe that's just our relationship strider rose Cheshire Echos Honestly, comparing my early 20's to my mid 20's? (Turning 26 next month) I wish I could go back to my early 20's a do it all over again. I was pretty wild and had a lot of fun but since getting married I'm very vanilla. I sometimes miss those wild days but enjoy how much I've grown. I wish i could take my personality now and put it back into my early 20 me and regrow from there. I'd make different choices and try to reconnect with people sooner rather than later. yeah im the same way since i got married almost 5 years ago . i just wish that i had friends to go visit your not alone in that ... *hugs* *hugs back* I'm sorry you're in the same spot. It's not fun at all i feel like im only here to clean and cook and thats it
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Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2020 12:52 pm
I’m turning 31 in December. All my friends are growing up and moving on. Most of them have at least 1 kid, some have 2 or more. I’d recommend to someone just entering their 20’s to not get into debt. I repeat DO NOT GET INTO DEBT & DO NOT TAKE OUT LOANS TO PAY ON DEBT!
Praise Almighty God he freed me from debt, but it took my entire 20’s and most of age 30 to get out of it. Medical debt especially ruined my life. Credit cards & Loans are tools of the devil. If you use them irresponsibly, you can find yourself getting into debt and paying interest on that debt for the rest of your life and it will ruin you in so many ways.
Now, your 20’s are a learning experience. You will be taught the things here that will stay with you for the rest of your life. Start taking good care of yourself on the front end and enjoy them. But act responsibly above all other things.
Have fun!
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Posted: Thu Aug 13, 2020 2:08 am
At 17 I was depressed. My family life was wrecked since my parents divorced, our economic situation was terrible, I had okay grades in school but absolutely no idea what to do with my life afterwards, and I had spent years so full of rage that I eventually burned myself up and became a sad husk. I used to look back a lot, and wonder what life my kid self would have lived had we not been hit by ruin. I was pretty hopeless.
During the first half of the last decade I had time to feel anxious and depressed for a while, rebound from that thanks to help from people who cared about me, push that people away because years of holding onto rage as a primary emotion tends to do that to a human mind, fall into despair so hard that it felt like I got punted into the Underworld like a human soccerball, repeat the last two steps several more times until I ended up hospitalized for a week, and losing everything that made me... well, me.
Which was just what I needed. Because you see, during the second half of the last decade I was given the chance to start anew from a clean slate. My rage, my sadness, my twisted values, my outlook in the world were all washed away through sheer Deus Ex Machina (and some therapy). Second chances of that caliber are very rare, and I did not waste it. I was offered a real job that required moving out and away from what had been my regular existence, I worked hard both during working hours and outside the office, I improved myself in all aspects I could, and I finally made a life for myself that I felt was worth living. I became a focused and professional person, I became charismatic, I made friends everywhere I went, I was brave and constantly seeking adventure, and most important of all, I was finally happy.
I'm 27 now. And while I admit I'm not having the best moment of my life right now, I am pretty content with how things are. The last 5 years have been a good run, and even though I've had to deal with some health issues for the last 2, I know they won't be permanent. And even if they were, I can overcome them with enough effort. And once the pandemic is over, or at least under control, I will resume seeking a life worth living.
I used to compare my 13s vs my 23s. 13-year-old me wanted to be "a cool longhaired videogame character that had armor, friends, and went on adventures". 23-year-old me was just that. He'd be proud.
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Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2020 8:13 am
Miss_XxAriaxX How your life has changed ? 20 vs 30 30 vs 40 etc. I don't know razz the extend of gaians age here. I'm turning 29 soon.. It's close to 30 sweatdrop . I remember when I was in my mid-twenties. I was going through a mid-life crisis . My expectations were too high. I read some articles of people going through mid 20s crisis and that people are happier in their 30s because they know what they want. For me, it didn't change much. I was a full-time student in my 20s + I worked a few year full-time. Near my 30s I'm still a full-time student (because of career change) but I work part-time. There are days that I don't really like myself. There are days that I hate the world. I think I feel less lonely, because everyone is busy including myself. sweatdrop How is your outlook on things now that you're 30? Any positive changes over the course of the last year and half?
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Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2020 12:12 pm
Dark Mage with 0 MP Miss_XxAriaxX How your life has changed ? 20 vs 30 30 vs 40 etc. I don't know razz the extend of gaians age here. I'm turning 29 soon.. It's close to 30 sweatdrop . I remember when I was in my mid-twenties. I was going through a mid-life crisis . My expectations were too high. I read some articles of people going through mid 20s crisis and that people are happier in their 30s because they know what they want. For me, it didn't change much. I was a full-time student in my 20s + I worked a few year full-time. Near my 30s I'm still a full-time student (because of career change) but I work part-time. There are days that I don't really like myself. There are days that I hate the world. I think I feel less lonely, because everyone is busy including myself. sweatdrop How is your outlook on things now that you're 30? Any positive changes over the course of the last year and half? Yes, I improved my financial income.
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