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Diego the Incubus

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Posted: Tue Mar 21, 2006 6:26 pm

Well, I've been an FA for sometime now, but I've only recently been open about it. I was pleasantly surprised to see that no one was all "OMFG, YOU SICKO!!!!!111" about it. I was releaved to say the least.

Discussion: Are you willingly open about being an FA? If you are, how were you received by others?

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 5:52 am

That's incredible news, man. Congrats.

I haven't had the pleasure of not being ridiculed just yet, but I'm sure it'll happen eventually.

At least my girlfriend doesn't care, yeah?

The few times I have been open about it, I don't think anyone really takes me very seriously. Like I'm joking or something. Ah well.

CutsceneLogic

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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 9:18 am

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It's awesome that people were cool about it.
I just might put some faith back into humanity.

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 1:01 pm

I'm glad for you. heart I bet that's a good feeling.

I'm really not open about being much of an FA. Nobody I know in the real life knows that I like that, and nobody really knows that I'm into girls.

I would be open about being into girls, but I kinda ******** that up a while ago. Y'see, I've been questioning the fact on whether I do like girls or not for the past couple of years, and right now, I'm pretty sure I do feel that way... but I've made it clear to my friends that I'm straight. Eh heh.

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Jesus_vs_Godzilla

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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 2:06 pm

When I was dating my ex, I felt so weird being around his friends, who all had skinny girlfriends... I don't know, I just wondered if he felt uncomfortable too....I wasn't around his friends much anyways..... Ah the highschool drama.
All my friends know that I am bisexual, and that when it comes to girls I am a total FA. But I am chubby girl, so it's not shocking. I've never been ridiculed for being an female FA, If I did it wouldn't matter. Everyone has a preference and if others can't accept that, then they need to ignore it. It doesn't matter what others think of you, because you know what you think of yourself- which is what matters.

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 3:44 pm

Butter Rum

I'm really not open about being much of an FA. Nobody I know in the real life knows that I like that, and nobody really knows that I'm into girls.

I would be open about being into girls, but I kinda ******** that up a while ago. Y'see, I've been questioning the fact on whether I do like girls or not for the past couple of years, and right now, I'm pretty sure I do feel that way... but I've made it clear to my friends that I'm straight. Eh heh.

I don't you should worry about what you said or suggested to your friends. I mean, people change and you have the right to do so. If they can't accept that, that's their problem. Of course, you don't want to shove it down their throats either. I only mention it if the subject comes up or I'm in proper company.

Diego the Incubus

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Whip It Out!

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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 4:07 pm

Yay! Go man Go!

I've been ridiculed for liking my girls with a little meat on their bones.

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 4:11 pm

I've told a bunch of people. For me it's pretty much a 50% chance that they treat me like a freak.

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Fuzzy Necromancer

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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 4:41 pm

I've told my friends and my creative writing class, but I don't think the latter really took it seriously. Most of the time I think it just isn't taken seriously.

Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 8:30 am

Fuzzy Necromancer

I've told my friends and my creative writing class, but I don't think the latter really took it seriously. Most of the time I think it just isn't taken seriously.

It's funny how it's not usually taken seriously by most people. That tells me that we need to start more FA/BBW awareness groups. 3nodding

People reacted very well to me when I started to speak up. As a matter of fact, even some skinny girls thought that it was very sweet/cute that I like thick chicks (Appearently, people are starting to learn that fat girls need love too. heart ).

Diego the Incubus

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Shampoo_0405

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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 4:52 pm

I've actually talked about this with my friends and how it's hard to find a guy to open up like this..and they think I'm weird. They are like, "Why are guys like that? No guy is like that, they all like girls that are skinny."