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Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2014 3:19 pm

I have this friend that I been Friends with since I was five years old. It been 14 years now. Anyway last year I moved away to take care an aunt Mine. So we don't get hangout anymore since am seven hours away. Since I been gine they dont even acknowledge me anymore. In fact they change! They got new friend. from another friend of mine i found out That they talk awful things about Me.
Like if we were in middle school. I dont chat with them because how immature they acted but i do miss my old best friend. How do forget them and move on sad ( I need advice or why!!!!

Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 11:58 am

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Ohmigosh I'm sorry I didn't see this! Ugh. That really sucks. I have had the same thing happen. The truth is they probably just aren't that great of people.. I have seen people bond just by talking crap on others. You have done nothing wrong. They probably have more in common. It's not fair for you though that they pushed you out. I think they are just selfish. They have each other so they don't feel like they need you. Which is sad. I don't know how you move on really. I lost a really great friend about a year ago. What I try to do is, if I think about him think about something good. I just tell myself he isn't the same person anymore.

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Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 11:39 am

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From the way it sounds, it seems as if
the hurt from you leaving caused things to turn sour.

Instead of just being honest and saying
"I miss you", insults happened instead.

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Easier to be mean
then to be sensitive.

You did absolutely nothing wrong.

Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 8:54 pm

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Wow, you are so right. That's why I say mean stuff to my mom. She is a bad parent.. but I don't mean half the s**t I say when I'm mad at her. It's cause I'm hurt.

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Posted: Fri Jul 18, 2014 10:09 pm

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Wow, you are so right. That's why I say mean stuff to my mom. She is a bad parent.. but I don't mean half the s**t I say when I'm mad at her. It's cause I'm hurt.

It's hard when your mom
is hurtful neutral She's supposed to be the one
who knows you inside and out.

She's supposed to know what
to say and what not to say.

But...maybe my idea of a
mother figure is too idealistic sweatdrop

Posted: Sat Jul 19, 2014 1:57 pm

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Nah, I feel the same way. Your mom should be your best friend, always be there for you. My mom was not. She has psychological problems and I don't know if that's what's to blame. But I know if I had a daughter I would treat her much better than she has me.

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Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 6:49 pm

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Cinderful

Nah, I feel the same way. Your mom should be your best friend, always be there for you. My mom was not. She has psychological problems and I don't know if that's what's to blame. But I know if I had a daughter I would treat her much better than she has me.

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I've never been a parent
but I always think, a mom or dad should
give their kid all the things that they wish
they had when they were little.

I think sometimes, adults
forget what it felt like to be little.
So all that stuff they wanted, doesn't
successfully get transferred to kids they happen to have.

sweatdrop All we can do, as the next generation,
is try to make it better for the new one sure to come.

Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 7:45 pm

Cinderful

Yes, I agree. Having kids scares me a lot but I know I'd be a great one. I'd shower my kid with attention. Teach them all I could and buy them all I could, haha.

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Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2015 3:58 pm

Well since your 19, your high school life is over and that's fine. You've grown up a wonderful person and you don't need your old friends to be happy. When you grow you get new friends.

Its rare to have real friends in high school. Their are few occasions that you do keep them but most times not. It sucks i know it does, but now you have this family, positive energy, who will stay by your side. IF you or ANYONE ever needs someone to take to, I'm here!!!

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