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 Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2014 4:48 pm
Hello everyone in this guild. I feel as though we aren't communicating as much as we did earlier in the making of this wonderful group. So why not start by talking about the struggles/ things we have in common.
As a starter, let me start.
People who do recognize me as a female outside, they quickly call me a lesbian without second thought. Can any of you relate to this?
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2014 5:12 pm
cosplayherounite Hello everyone in this guild. I feel as though we aren't communicating as much as we did earlier in the making of this wonderful group. So why not start by talking about the struggles/ things we have in common. As a starter, let me start. People who do recognize me as a female outside, they quickly call me a lesbian without second thought. Can any of you relate to this? Hells yeah, I think there's no way to avoid preconceptions. #Thestruggle in my opinion is not taking those preconceptions too harshly.
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2014 6:04 pm
Retrograde0 cosplayherounite Hello everyone in this guild. I feel as though we aren't communicating as much as we did earlier in the making of this wonderful group. So why not start by talking about the struggles/ things we have in common. As a starter, let me start. People who do recognize me as a female outside, they quickly call me a lesbian without second thought. Can any of you relate to this? Hells yeah, I think there's no way to avoid preconceptions. #Thestruggle in my opinion is not taking those preconceptions too harshly. I don't take it harshly, but at least have a little respect before you go calling me out things. Luckily I've been passive enough to go in the male restrooms without question.
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2014 6:32 pm
cosplayherounite Retrograde0 cosplayherounite Hello everyone in this guild. I feel as though we aren't communicating as much as we did earlier in the making of this wonderful group. So why not start by talking about the struggles/ things we have in common. As a starter, let me start. People who do recognize me as a female outside, they quickly call me a lesbian without second thought. Can any of you relate to this? Hells yeah, I think there's no way to avoid preconceptions. #Thestruggle in my opinion is not taking those preconceptions too harshly. I don't take it harshly, but at least have a little respect before you go calling me out things. Luckily I've been passive enough to go in the male restrooms without question. I'm sorry. sad I haven't had too many experiences like that, and that must be nice.. I would never know which one I would go into even if I could pass.
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2014 6:48 pm
i have a hard time passing so i wouldn't know. no one has questioned my sexuality lucky. my parents make a big thing about it but i tell them sexuality has nothing to do with my gender. i just happen to like men. simple as that. she also frowns on the fact that i'm a pretty boy who enjoys visual kei/ oshare kei fashion. she said i wasn't "manly" lolz i laughed and shrugged it off. i never wanna be anything but me on the inside the only thing missing is the right genitals. after all we are all men and or women in our own right. sorry i haven't been on much. heath and money issues are taking over my life.
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2014 7:11 pm
Samurai_Zatoichi i have a hard time passing so i wouldn't know. no one has questioned my sexuality lucky. my parents make a big thing about it but i tell them sexuality has nothing to do with my gender. i just happen to like men. simple as that. she also frowns on the fact that i'm a pretty boy who enjoys visual kei/ oshare kei fashion. she said i wasn't "manly" lolz i laughed and shrugged it off. i never wanna be anything but me on the inside the only thing missing is the right genitals. after all we are all men and or women in our own right. sorry i haven't been on much. heath and money issues are taking over my life. Yeah, people tend to have this idea that if you identify as a man then you have to be this. Especially "men" since there's so much insecurity about being an "alpha", but hopefully with time humans will evolve past this.
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Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2014 8:45 am
There's wide spread ignorance for sexuality and gender. I still have trouble when it comes to this topic; though very willing to learn. So don't hold it against people for not understanding. It really takes one to know one for every experience and or lifestyle.
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Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2014 6:23 pm
I can't pass as anything right now so I'm constantly seen as female and lesbian. Even my good friend that knows about my gender just thinks I'm lesbian in the closet. Once I got my hair cut short then that started to happen even more. :roll:
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Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2014 4:47 pm
Raving Mage I can't pass as anything right now so I'm constantly seen as female and lesbian. Even my good friend that knows about my gender just thinks I'm lesbian in the closet. Once I got my hair cut short then that started to happen even more. :roll: . Well I couldn't get mistaken as lesbian sense I'm pansexual. But you can't let people calling you a lesbian/ female get you down if they know absolutly nothing of how you're feeling or what you truly are. Yes we go through people calling us lesbian, but we still know by heart that we're male despite their words.
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2014 9:25 am
Shinalien There's wide spread ignorance for sexuality and gender. I still have trouble when it comes to this topic; though very willing to learn. So don't hold it against people for not understanding. It really takes one to know one for every experience and or lifestyle. Well I'm not trying to hold anything against anyone. Besides, there's not much to learn from on this forum I put up. It's just a thing where one shares something and ask if anyone can relate. We hear from a couple members who can, then we move on to someone else who says something and asks if we the rest of us can relate to it. No need to get serious.
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2014 4:33 pm
My biggest issue is people, including people who understand and accept non-binary genders, saying I can't be genderqueer cause I'm AFAB and femme. Yeah, I like to wear dresses, ut that doesn't make me a girl!
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2014 5:41 pm
ematerasu My biggest issue is people, including people who understand and accept non-binary genders, saying I can't be genderqueer cause I'm AFAB and femme. Yeah, I like to wear dresses, ut that doesn't make me a girl! so basically it's just that people call you a girl even though you're a person who likes to wear dresses. I think that's relatable.
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2014 7:56 pm
I haven't had any experience with this since I can't pass as a woman at all and I'm still into other women.
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2014 8:18 pm
Abby Kitsune I haven't had any experience with this since I can't pass as a woman at all and I'm still into other women. well the question is; are you starting transition? Are you pre or what?
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Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2014 2:43 am
I am extremely pre-transition.
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