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Gus the Duck
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:52 pm


I have a question: for you do you think you could be attracted to either males or females, depending on the emotional connection/relationship you had with them?
For me I have only been sexually attracted to one man in my life and I feel like it is because of who he is and who we are together, not necessarily because he is male on top of those other things I value. I feel like I could be sexually attracted to a woman, but I never have had and probably will never date and fall in love with a woman.

What do you think about this?
PostPosted: Wed Mar 13, 2013 10:00 pm


Yeah, gender doesn't matter to me. I find women more attractive aesthetically, but I tend to fall for men because I can relate to them better (because I'm interested in really deep conversations, video games, some sci-fi stuff). *shrugs* But overall, gender means nothing to me... so that's why I identify as panromantic.



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Anhelitum

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 30, 2013 8:36 am


I connect better with females so usually I find them more attractive than males, but I also felt attraction towards one of my male friends so I guess it really doesn't matter as long as I can form a connection with a person, even if I wish I didn't (usuall scanario: you get a friend, you are friends,then the friend get's a pair, you become friend of the pair as well, and then after some time (and often after the two get already married) all of a sudden You start to have all this hormonal rushes and stuff... Dammit stressed ).
PostPosted: Sat Mar 30, 2013 10:00 am


Anhelitum
I connect better with females so usually I find them more attractive than males, but I also felt attraction towards one of my male friends so I guess it really doesn't matter as long as I can form a connection with a person, even if I wish I didn't (usuall scanario: you get a friend, you are friends,then the friend get's a pair, you become friend of the pair as well, and then after some time (and often after the two get already married) all of a sudden You start to have all this hormonal rushes and stuff... Dammit stressed ).


I honestly find women more aesthetically attractive then men, but i've never dated a woman. I just think they are really pretty, more so than most men.
My boyfriend and I became best friends before we started going out, I developed a lot of feelings for him after hanging out with him for months. Then we started dating.

Gus the Duck
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Anhelitum

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 30, 2013 10:08 am


Gus the Duck
I honestly find women more aesthetically attractive then men, but i've never dated a woman. I just think they are really pretty, more so than most men.
My boyfriend and I became best friends before we started going out, I developed a lot of feelings for him after hanging out with him for months. Then we started dating.


I like the bodies as well as minds, I mean in some way they reflect what's on the inside... I know very beautifull men, and extremly enchanting women to whom I'm not attracted at all... It's just that the body on its own doesn't really matter to me - it's like a good painting to hang on the wall, nice to look at, pleasing, but after all just a decor that can easily get exchanged for some other image... It also helps that when I take off my glasses I barely see anything so everything is as beautifull as my imagination makes it wink
PostPosted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 5:18 pm



Personally, I find women aesthetically pleasing. But I'm in no way attracted to them otherwise. Some men I find attractive, but usually after being friends with them for a long time. I'm more often than not able to connect with men easier than women, simply because I don't find many women that are into videogames as much as I am. Hehe.

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