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is it possible to be asexual?

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 2:43 pm


i have a mix of friends, male and female. i interact with all of them on a daily basis, or near-daily.
i've never been attracted. to anyone. not even strangers. either gender.
i hear girls talk about how they're 'whole' only when they 'have a boyfriend (or girlfriend)'
me?
friendships are ok, since you're still able to do your own things.
an actual relationship?
i'd be suffering. even if they held back, it's too hard for me.
i tried. once. didn't like it.
it was a couple of years ago, and i'm almost eighteen now.

ironically, everyone comes to me for relationship advice.

note that i am excluding video game characters from this.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 5:03 pm


Kitalpha Hart
Did you ever had crush ?
Maybe you didn't meet someone that makes your heart beat faster.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 5:38 pm


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Did you ever had crush?


yeah, but since i excluded video game characters, he doesn't count...
PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 5:45 pm


Well many people don't feel attraction to others so =P

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 9:27 pm


Is it possible to be asexual? Yes.
Could you be asexual? Possibly. The definition of asexuality is someone who does not experience sexual attraction. However, only you can decide which label best suits you.

Here is a good place to learn about asexuality. If you feel the label suits you then that's great, if you feel it doesn't then that's great too.

Honestly, just go with whatever feels right emotion_bigheart
PostPosted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 10:52 am



Uggg emotion_drool
I never understood all that asexual, pansexual, and la la la.

I get gay, straight, lesbian, and bisexual.

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I don't think you should kid yourself probably just havent found, or been friends with the person you would fall in love with. I mean 18 is young.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 3:55 pm


you certainly can be asexual, if you don't experience sexual attraction.
sexuality is fluid, blahblah.

also, there are various reasons other than sexuality for why a person may not feel sexual attraction.
like depression, blahblah. i knew a couple people who thought they were asexual when they were teenagers because they were struggling with their gender identity, had very very little self-confidence, or were in denial of their sexual orientation, and when they dealt with their issues they realized they weren't.
i wouldn't dwell on it too much, to be honest.

not everyone cares about romantic relationships. personally i'm perfectly happy being single, and not once in my life have i aspired to be married or whatever.
it isn't weird or anything. c:
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