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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2012 7:17 pm

I'm 21 and still a virgin, I honestly thought I wouldn't be at this age and at this point... I want to have it just for the experience and partially to get that part done and over with.

I have no friends I can comfortably approach about it and I have no experience at all in that department. I've never been in a relationship and the most I've ever done is peck someone on the lips and that's it.

So... what do I do?

Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2012 8:46 pm

The way I see it these are your options:

1. Ask a friend - It can be awkward to bring up, but at least it's someone you know and feel comfortable with.

2. Ask a stranger - It's definitely not for everyone, but I have personally had pretty good luck meeting guys online.

3. Find a boyfriend - Easier said than done, I know. And it can take some time. But the internet can come in handy there too if you have trouble meeting people in person. I met my partner current partner online, and we've been living together for over five years now.

4. Wait - Being a virgin at 21 isn't anything to feel weird about, and it isn't that uncommon. I've known quite a few 20+ virgins. So there's no rush if you can't find a partner that you're comfortable with.

Only you can decide which of those options is the best and the most realistic for you right now. Whenever you do have sex, make sure you use protection. Condoms and a hormonal method are best. And make sure you're relaxed and well lubricated (buying a water-based lubricant from the store wouldn't be a bad idea).

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Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2012 6:45 am

scxl

I'm 21 and still a virgin, I honestly thought I wouldn't be at this age and at this point... I want to have it just for the experience and partially to get that part done and over with.

I have no friends I can comfortably approach about it and I have no experience at all in that department. I've never been in a relationship and the most I've ever done is peck someone on the lips and that's it.

So... what do I do?

Honestly, you should feel proud that your 21 and still haven't lost your virginity.. A lot pf people can't even make it past 15 on that one. Sounds like you have good standards then. Best thing to do now is do some relationship searching.

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