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Posted: Mon May 28, 2012 11:51 am

Every time I get online, all I see is something about him meeting someone new or talking to another guy, flirting away. I want to scream constantly, things have been great... some times, but its just I don't trust him especially because he practically dropped me for my ex like three months ago. I don't know what to do at all. I feel like he's just playing me.....

Posted: Mon May 28, 2012 1:17 pm

Well, first thing's first, I understand how you feel because I start to feel like that with a lot of my relationships actually. You should bring it up with him and tell him how you are feeling and that when he did leave you, it left you scared that he is just gonna do it again with a different guy. I obviously don't think that you should stay with him if he is talking sexually/flirting with other guys if you have already established that the two of you are supposed to be committed to each other and that's it.

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Posted: Mon May 28, 2012 2:47 pm

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Well, first thing's first, I understand how you feel because I start to feel like that with a lot of my relationships actually. You should bring it up with him and tell him how you are feeling and that when he did leave you, it left you scared that he is just gonna do it again with a different guy. I obviously don't think that you should stay with him if he is talking sexually/flirting with other guys if you have already established that the two of you are supposed to be committed to each other and that's it.

I completely agree. If he doesn't have enough respect for you to stay committed you need to look elsewhere. There's no need to waste your time on someone who's not interested in meeting your needs.

Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:54 am

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First off, I agree that it does sound like he is playing you and tends to flirt with other guys with the full intention on playing at some time or another. I have been in a relationship like this, he cheated on me and got angry when I was upset about it. It was as if he thought I should be alright with it, but nobody should have to suffer through such. If something does not change very soon, I hope you are able to find what is better for you.

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