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Um, hello.

Basically I've been sexually active for awhile, and I've been having a real hard time with the positions.

My partner is kinda toned and 6 ft tall, whereas I'm petite and 5 foot tall. I'm assuming this has something to do with it.

The first time it kinda hurt more in the cervix and we assumed it's because I was a virgin. But as time go by, after we're done, it would hurt inside for like a day or two.

I've went to the doctor, took std tests, pregnancies, and everything is okay. But it seems as though I guess he's kinda too big for me. He's about 6 inches, and everything he pokes me I flinch. And when he's in too deep it hurts pretty bad. He's hesitant in going deeper despite me telling him.

We've tried doggy style, me being on top, missionary, and reverse. But I feel if I stay there for awhile it begins to hurt so we have to stop.

Is there any way to stop this? My nurse told me a long time ago sometimes the cervix goes lower when your period begins to start or some s**t like that.

I'm kinda into rough sex x] and I don't think lubrication has anything to do with it. I get pretty wet easily, sometimes I have to bring a second pair of panties with me. sweatdrop

I would talk to your doctor, to rule out anything medical. Other than that, the only thing I can think of to suggest would be to keep researching different positions until you find something that works for you. Sorry I can't be of more help. whee

I'm sorry your campus nurse was such a b***h to you. sad People in those positions should not be treating their patients like that.

Quick thing I wanted to mention since you commented on being sick to your stomach - certain things can prevent the birth control pill from being absorbed properly, including certain medications/herbal treatments (St. John's Wort, for example, and grapefruits) and having an upset stomach. So if you're not feeling well while you're sexually active and using your birth control pills, you might want to think about using a condom as well/another back-up method, just in case.

Take this with a grain of salt, since it's wikipedia, but you can do other searches to see if you can find more information on this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyspareunia