I'm sorry that I haven't gotten to this part of the guild in a while... D: I would have come running sooner.
It's a tough situation that you're in. After all people aren't cookie cut-outs, and aren't predictable in the least. (Unless you're a people watcher like myself... Then a lot of people are quite predictable.)
Though, I have to say if you know how to communicate your feelings then it will probably be alright. Using "I Statements" always helps because it definitely changes the mood of the statement.
And I have to say, if your reasons for not liking this guy are legit and strong then your friend will probably, at least, listen and consider. If she blows her top, then there are three possible outcomes that I can think of... She's upset that you'd think such things, and 1) go home and start to become suspicious of him, split up with him after some epiphany; 2) go home and be with him for a long time, depending on what happens down the road; or 3) she goes home knowing how you feel, respects you're feelings, stays with him but also remains your friend and asks that you give him a chance to prove himself to you.
Though, I'm not a prophet, and I'm not palm-reader or anything special. I can't really tell you how to go about these kinds of situations, very well. >.< I have a tendency of being wrong. Though, I always try to remember to ask people if they want me to be honest about things where I want to tell 'em how I see it.
I just hope everything is going good with person whoever they are.
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