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Ok, This is the letter I wrote to my ex. I spent a few hours on it because I wanted to get the entire meaning across.
I'll explain a lot of the backstory behind this later. Here goes:

This is the last message and contact between us.
I just wanted you to know that I'm giving up.
I keep hoping that you'll end up with me, I keep ignoring what people say about me getting hurtor being used.
To be honest, I never cared if I was being used. It meant I was still a part of your life.
I keep believing you when you say you love me, or thatyou want to be with me, or that you want to marry me.
I keep doing that.
But then every time we hang out, you're with another person. Or when I go to just randomly post on your wall to tell you to have a good day, I see another thing aboutyou loving some other guy or being with some other guy or the relationship updates and stuff.
That happened today. I wanted to tell you that I hoped everything was ok, and I see you talkingabout some jacob guy. "My jacob" I believe you called him.
And I cantdo this anymore. I don't think you even understand whenever I said I loved you.
You've always had a way to make me believewhatever you say without question, to want to drop everything to help, to use hundreds of dollars on you becuase I want to help out or because it was something you liked.
I've spent almost five years on you...
And I don't think you ever meant the times we were around each other...
I can't do this agaim. I'm always getting hurt, and I've always ignored that because I wanted to be with you.
You're not the Nandi I fell for outside the bookstore. I don't care about that even though, because that's always the nandi I'll remember. The nandi that I'd do anything for. Whenever we hung out, I never saw you as anything but that Nandi.
And its to that Nandi I'm saying this too... Because, despite what everyone says, I've never believed that she didn't mean it when she said she loved me.
Goodbye Nandi.
Take care of yourself.
Ps, if you still have it, I want my necklace back.
Just mail it to my home address
I seriously want it back...

Now, I have no idea whether jacob is her godson or not, and I honestly don't care. Nandi has always had a way to get me to fall for her no matter what and make me instantly want to apologize for anything if she seemes upset the instant it happens. This is the first time I've never felt that need.
Nandi has been the kind of person to contact me only when there was nobody sharing her bed. I don't know how long it was after we dated that she started doing that. She wasn't like that at all before we met, or not that I noticed.
Over the summer and into this year a little, she's tried getting back with me, even going so far as to say "After we're done with college, and as soon a neither of us is with anyone, let's get married." She's always had a way to hold onto my heartstrings. countless times, she's 'gotten back together with me' only for me to find out that she's hitting on other guys and 'facebook official' with them. The time with the jacob thing on her status was the final straw for me.
Oh and, I've never heard anyone refer to their children/godchildren as "my [insert name here]" only people they're with.
One way or another though, the bridge between me an her is burned, and for once, I don't feel like having it repaired.