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Arthur Blackwell Vice Captain
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 Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 3:43 pm
Hey everyone, I'm making this thread for those who want too let some feelings out, positive or negative. I just feel like I have a hole in my heart honestly. Like it got stabbed. I really like a mate of mine. I mean I really like her. As so much to even call it love. Which is not a word i just toss around about people I have a romantic interest in. I trust her with everything. It's just hard watching though. See she really fancies me as as a boyfriend as I fancy her a girlfriend, but we are just good mates, who talk. The problem I encounter is, she keeps telling me on a day to day basis that she really fancies me, I show her a side of me no one has ever really seen. However, she has a boyfriend already, she keeps saying that she had problems with her boyfriend especially since he is very possessive, and wont let her really have any guy friends or contact with any other guys. It's a miracle she can even talk too me. She feels the relationship is unhealthy, and she even said she would want too be with me, but she loves her boyfriend still, and she is trying to figure things out as far as her deeper feelings for me go. She says she has them, but I have doubts. I have been talking to her almost non-stop for quite a while now, out of kindness for her, and because I listen to her problems. I just don't know what to do now, because my feelings have reached a really strong point, I've known her for a while now, and I just don't know if what I'm doing is right or wrong, or if there is even a slight chance at all, and lastly I don't know if I should just kill my feelings and bury them or follow through with them and wait for her?
What do you all think?
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Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:15 pm
Rentin Rokudo Hey everyone, I'm making this thread for those who want too let some feelings out, positive or negative. I just feel like I have a hole in my heart honestly. Like it got stabbed. I really like a mate of mine. I mean I really like her. As so much to even call it love. Which is not a word i just toss around about people I have a romantic interest in. I trust her with everything. It's just hard watching though. See she really fancies me as as a boyfriend as I fancy her a girlfriend, but we are just good mates, who talk. The problem I encounter is, she keeps telling me on a day to day basis that she really fancies me, I show her a side of me no one has ever really seen. However, she has a boyfriend already, she keeps saying that she had problems with her boyfriend especially since he is very possessive, and wont let her really have any guy friends or contact with any other guys. It's a miracle she can even talk too me. She feels the relationship is unhealthy, and she even said she would want too be with me, but she loves her boyfriend still, and she is trying to figure things out as far as her deeper feelings for me go. She says she has them, but I have doubts. I have been talking to her almost non-stop for quite a while now, out of kindness for her, and because I listen to her problems. I just don't know what to do now, because my feelings have reached a really strong point, I've known her for a while now, and I just don't know if what I'm doing is right or wrong, or if there is even a slight chance at all, and lastly I don't know if I should just kill my feelings and bury them or follow through with them and wait for her? What do you all think? That is an excellent pair of questions. If she truly loves you, and has feelings deeper for you than her boyfriend, then she should leave him. Another factor for her to leave him is the guy trying to seperate her from society. One thing I have ran into in a few of my past relationships is my lover never cheated on me with a guy... oh no, It was a woman. She has her own free will, and has permission to follow it if she so chooses. If she decides to wait, then wait for a bit. But if she takes to long, don't hold your breath, kay?
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Arthur Blackwell Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:52 pm
Ultimate Aftermath Rentin Rokudo Hey everyone, I'm making this thread for those who want too let some feelings out, positive or negative. I just feel like I have a hole in my heart honestly. Like it got stabbed. I really like a mate of mine. I mean I really like her. As so much to even call it love. Which is not a word i just toss around about people I have a romantic interest in. I trust her with everything. It's just hard watching though. See she really fancies me as as a boyfriend as I fancy her a girlfriend, but we are just good mates, who talk. The problem I encounter is, she keeps telling me on a day to day basis that she really fancies me, I show her a side of me no one has ever really seen. However, she has a boyfriend already, she keeps saying that she had problems with her boyfriend especially since he is very possessive, and wont let her really have any guy friends or contact with any other guys. It's a miracle she can even talk too me. She feels the relationship is unhealthy, and she even said she would want too be with me, but she loves her boyfriend still, and she is trying to figure things out as far as her deeper feelings for me go. She says she has them, but I have doubts. I have been talking to her almost non-stop for quite a while now, out of kindness for her, and because I listen to her problems. I just don't know what to do now, because my feelings have reached a really strong point, I've known her for a while now, and I just don't know if what I'm doing is right or wrong, or if there is even a slight chance at all, and lastly I don't know if I should just kill my feelings and bury them or follow through with them and wait for her? What do you all think? That is an excellent pair of questions. If she truly loves you, and has feelings deeper for you than her boyfriend, then she should leave him. Another factor for her to leave him is the guy trying to seperate her from society. One thing I have ran into in a few of my past relationships is my lover never cheated on me with a guy... oh no, It was a woman. She has her own free will, and has permission to follow it if she so chooses. If she decides to wait, then wait for a bit. But if she takes to long, don't hold your breath, kay? The thing is I don't know how long is too long honestly we talk already as if we were together, but we are not. I'm gonna wait for her, but I just don't know when enough waiting is enough.
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Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 7:27 pm
Quote: Quality over Quantity, those are the little words she once said to me, while we were standing on the balcony, watching the night sky slowly filling with the endless glitter of the stars, the moon light made her small frame and figure become as clear as day and I could not help but to weep a tear of joy. It was as if life had once more become clear in my eyes and I knew all that I wanted was before my very eyes, and right in reach. Life had no true meaning until that moment and to this day nothing has ever been more clear then that sole image burned into my heart and soul of her standing in the moonlight, on that balcony....... Love is a painful, painful thing, you should tell her to get with you and be happy, even if it's just for a little while, someone once told me, "hell you never know if you can fly unless you take that leap off the side of the cliff"
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CaptainKillbot Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 2:43 am
hmm I agree with Killbot
ninja sweatdrop Just had a over reacting moment *Breaths chill out* ninja why do men get women worked up?
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 4:18 am
Rentin Rokudo Ultimate Aftermath Rentin Rokudo Hey everyone, I'm making this thread for those who want too let some feelings out, positive or negative. I just feel like I have a hole in my heart honestly. Like it got stabbed. I really like a mate of mine. I mean I really like her. As so much to even call it love. Which is not a word i just toss around about people I have a romantic interest in. I trust her with everything. It's just hard watching though. See she really fancies me as as a boyfriend as I fancy her a girlfriend, but we are just good mates, who talk. The problem I encounter is, she keeps telling me on a day to day basis that she really fancies me, I show her a side of me no one has ever really seen. However, she has a boyfriend already, she keeps saying that she had problems with her boyfriend especially since he is very possessive, and wont let her really have any guy friends or contact with any other guys. It's a miracle she can even talk too me. She feels the relationship is unhealthy, and she even said she would want too be with me, but she loves her boyfriend still, and she is trying to figure things out as far as her deeper feelings for me go. She says she has them, but I have doubts. I have been talking to her almost non-stop for quite a while now, out of kindness for her, and because I listen to her problems. I just don't know what to do now, because my feelings have reached a really strong point, I've known her for a while now, and I just don't know if what I'm doing is right or wrong, or if there is even a slight chance at all, and lastly I don't know if I should just kill my feelings and bury them or follow through with them and wait for her? What do you all think? That is an excellent pair of questions. If she truly loves you, and has feelings deeper for you than her boyfriend, then she should leave him. Another factor for her to leave him is the guy trying to seperate her from society. One thing I have ran into in a few of my past relationships is my lover never cheated on me with a guy... oh no, It was a woman. She has her own free will, and has permission to follow it if she so chooses. If she decides to wait, then wait for a bit. But if she takes to long, don't hold your breath, kay? The thing is I don't know how long is too long honestly we talk already as if we were together, but we are not. I'm gonna wait for her, but I just don't know when enough waiting is enough. When you feel your heart fall out of your chest after a while... you've had enough. Some people are very complicated, and don't realize that true love is right in front of them. Just give it time my friend.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 4:20 am
FireNLuv hmm I agree with Killbot ninja sweatdrop Just had a over reacting moment *Breaths chill out* ninja why do men get women worked up? Three reasons; To spark Interest in women To add a thrill to both people's regular life. and most of all... ...We are assholes (No joke, we just are)
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 9:40 am
FireNLuv hmm I agree with Killbot ninja sweatdrop Just had a over reacting moment *Breaths chill out* ninja why do men get women worked up? Who got you all worked up ? Three reasons; Ultimate Aftermath To spark Interest in women To add a thrill to both people's regular life. and most of all... ...We are assholes (No joke, we just are) Men like conflict, its in our nature to start a fight It excites us and gets our blood running I'm not an a*****e i'm a p***k, assholes get ******** well you know what those do
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CaptainKillbot Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 9:50 am
CaptainKillbot Who got you all worked up ? Just something. stare
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:14 am
FireNLuv CaptainKillbot Who got you all worked up ? Just something. stare Was it me?
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CaptainKillbot Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:36 am
CaptainKillbot FireNLuv CaptainKillbot Who got you all worked up ? Just something. stare Was it me? no, nothing to do with anybody on gaia online
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:43 am
FireNLuv CaptainKillbot FireNLuv CaptainKillbot Who got you all worked up ? Just something. stare Was it me? no, nothing to do with anybody on gaia online I was hoping it was something I said
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CaptainKillbot Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:47 am
CaptainKillbot FireNLuv CaptainKillbot FireNLuv CaptainKillbot Who got you all worked up ? Just something. stare Was it me? no, nothing to do with anybody on gaia online I was hoping it was something I said sorry no it's nothing you had said
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:48 am
FireNLuv CaptainKillbot FireNLuv CaptainKillbot FireNLuv CaptainKillbot Who got you all worked up ? Just something. stare Was it me? no, nothing to do with anybody on gaia online I was hoping it was something I said sorry no it's nothing you had said Well there goes my morning What do you think of home boys problem?
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CaptainKillbot Vice Captain
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