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Luneth Moon

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 16, 2011 8:13 pm


I've made up my mind, I want to come out to my family on my 21st birthday this Saturday (Aug 20).

This is going to be hard on account that:
a) I have a bad anxiety problem
b) My mom won't look at the accurate translations of the Bible and believes that same-sex relationships earn a one-way ticket to hell
c) regarding section b), I'm more gay than bi (number 5 on the Kinsley scale~ Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual)
d) with being out they'll know I'm a slightly femme bi

I need words of support, I don't want my 21st to go and have me not come out and continue living a lie
PostPosted: Tue Aug 16, 2011 8:53 pm


sounds good i guess. i dont know how they will react at all though (my parents dont know im bi). but i wish u good luck :3
(also yay ur a furry)

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 20, 2011 1:36 am


Good luck! You can do it! Coming out is hard, especially when it comes to unsupportive parents, but at least you know the time is right. I hope it goes very well for you, and don't give up! No matter what happens, you'll make it through the day smile
PostPosted: Sat Aug 20, 2011 1:38 am


Ringwiln
Good luck! You can do it! Coming out is hard, especially when it comes to unsupportive parents, but at least you know the time is right. I hope it goes very well for you, and don't give up! No matter what happens, you'll make it through the day smile


Thanks, it's kinda scary knowing that I'm gonna come out TODAY. Of all the time I had, I wish I had more.

Luneth Moon

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Ringwiln

PostPosted: Sat Aug 20, 2011 1:41 am


It always seems like there just never is enough time when it comes to these things. Just play it cool until the moment of truth, yeah? It's actually very easy to say the words.
And don't worry about their reaction. Who knows? They might react differently than you thought they would.
Again, good luck! Fight!
PostPosted: Sat Aug 20, 2011 6:16 am


Wow, you're soooo brave to just decide like that!! I admire you so much! whee I could never do something like that--I'm still scared to tell my older brother who probably wouldn't care either way (he might understand because he's determined to be a bachelor all his life, lol).

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neko-mata-01

PostPosted: Sat Aug 20, 2011 9:37 am


happy birthday
i hope this goes well for you
PostPosted: Tue Aug 23, 2011 9:37 pm


Happy birthday and good luck my friend

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neko-mata-01

PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 12:01 pm


hopefully nothing bad happened...the op hasn't replied for 4 days
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