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PostPosted: Sat May 28, 2011 10:38 pm


two years ago i was sent to stay somewhere for a while, i ended up staying a year in an all girls residential placement kind of facility and i made TONS of friends and a couple girlfriends here and there(never at once of course). The only girl there(or any so far in my life) that stuck in my mind was my last girlfriend. i ended it with her because i graduated and since she came after i did she had to stay longer. i was sending her mail back and forth and we did get back 'together' after a month of being apart. while ive been online(hourless) ive been gettin new friends on FB who know her or are were she is too.
i heard from one of them that she was cheating on me and she was so i mailed her her ring she sent to me...
now
i dont want to give up on her
i sent her a letter this morning saying that i WILL be here for her when she gets out if she still wants me in her life.
ive been cheated on a lot before but i never felt like i do for her like i did with them.
i know its probably a bad idea to tell her that because she has a history of doing this kind of thing, but i cant seem to give up on her.

so, if anyone else has gone through something similar or has any tips/pointers they want to share in this type of snatch.
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PostPosted: Sun May 29, 2011 3:01 am


Well there's a saying "Once a cheat, always a cheat" Over simplistic yes, but it does ring true.

Really I think you have to examin a few factors; how old you both are, not saying that young love doesn't last mind you.
How long the both of you had been together and how long it was before she apparently cheated?

I feel that the more time and emotion invested in a relationship warrents a bit more thinking on taking someone back who cheated. BUT why should you be treated like that!?! There are plenty more fish in the sea!

I think that made some sort of sence...

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PostPosted: Sun May 29, 2011 1:40 pm


hehe, well yea it made sense to me. shes 17 this year and im 19 this year. we were together almost a month when i was there. then after i left we were probably together 7.5months, and around the full 7th month i found out, but clarified with other people.
and yea ive been told that saying soo many times haha.
im still not exactly sure what im going to do about it, but for now im just going to wait for a response to the letter i sent her. i'll post anything new that comes up tho(probably).
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