I realized something today, that I shouldn't change but work on finding people I can related, gain more confidence and all that. I also learned a bit more about myself, style and interest and it inspired me to incorporate them into Kotori's character.
I can see Kotori being a character who struggles with being picked on or lack confidence (especially with her brother complex and seeing how her siblings are). I can see her style being elegant gothic lolita/aristocrat, waloli and similar styles. I can also see her interested in dance, being more feminine than her sister Sachiko, she would probably not being interested in fighting liker her sister. I thought her style would be Tribal and cabaret style, probably used swords and zills. Her hair sticks would work with Tribal style dance and qi loli style (Chinese inspired) and double as weapons.
Some examples of her style
Qi loli-
http://browse.deviantart.com/?qh=§ion=&global=1&q=qi+loli#/d2ux9ge
Waloli-
http://browse.deviantart.com/?qh=§ion=&q=wa+loli#/d24av2t
Different Gothic Lolita-
http://browse.deviantart.com/?qh=§ion=&q=+gothic+lolita+styles#/d1b6jy7
Tribal fusion-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ryZA68xoly8
http://www.gildedserpent.com/cms/2010/11/03/jasmine-june-intro-tribal-fusion-belly-dance/#axzz1KnptwjRW
American Tribal Style-
http://www.bellydanceskirt.org/american-tribal-belly-dance-costumes-2/
Rough idea of what she looks like and my version of her

http://fav.me/d3dh93c
I see her as a genjutsu type (well with the sharingan and all). There is more info about that in the profile page here
I will probably work on her some more and draw some sketched of her in different outfits.
