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Zyphlid

Generous Fatcat

PostPosted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:08 pm


Just as the title says, I'm here to help anyone in need of support. I'm not a therapist or any type of "mind doctor" as I call them(and my own xp ), but I try my best to be there for people even when I'm there to just to listen. Sometimes I have trouble talking to others, mostly because I'm shy and take more time then what people want to think about a solution, but I will think of a way to help sometime as soon as you need it.
Basically, I am here for you. I will be there if you need me and give you straight answers if that is what you want. I won't lie to you if that is what you need. You don't have to spill your guts or tell me secrets. I am just here to talk and help YOU.
I know it's hard to tell people your problems because you've built a wall around them or every time you try to talk or write or type anything your throat swells up or your fingers become frozen. I have the same problem and I understand that you're thinking ahead, thinking about what that person might think, what they might do, if they'll tell or make fun of you behind your back. Or maybe you tell lies about a real truth, make it seem better then it is so you don't have to talk about it as much and can go on over it.
I'm not here for gossip. I'm not here to make fun of anyone. I don't want to hurt someone. I want to help. I want to be that person that can be truthful talked to even if it's hard to do. But if it'sto o hard, don't strain your self. I'm not going to know, but even a little truth can help you more then you know. I might just give you the right answer, the right pat on the back, that you need.
Don't be afraid to message me personally or comment below. Maybe I can just brighten your day with a few words or humor you into a smile. Maybe I can hint a solution or give you one. What ever you need, I'm here. :]
PostPosted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:37 pm


Ok, there is a girl at my school who acts like she's queen of everything,of course everybody treats her like she is.(except me) So she gets away with every thing, how I know that because of all the verbal abuse she gives she never gets in trouble(words like b***h loser go to hell freak retard) oh yeah Those words are mostly directed at me.

pr0cl0ne

Feral Shapeshifter


Zyphlid

Generous Fatcat

PostPosted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 8:20 pm


littlelambylamb
Ok, there is a girl at my school who acts like she's queen of everything,of course everybody treats her like she is.(except me) So she gets away with every thing, how I know that because of all the verbal abuse she gives she never gets in trouble(words like b***h loser go to hell freak retard) oh yeah Those words are mostly directed at me.


She sounds to me like one of those stereotypical cheerleader type of girls. But she's a poster child for it. If everyone "respects" her and she is giving you grief, I think the teachers are failing at their jobs miserably more then anything. But I'm also going to guess she acts goody-goody two shoes around adults while calling you names behind their backs(Back to the poster child thing)? And if not, what adults are in your school that do not try to help a student being verbally abused?
Have you tried talking to someone who isn't a teacher? School councilor are a step above them and if they don't solve this problem possibly a vice principal could help? They could help break up the problem by telling teachers about it and watch for further abuse. You can even tell them not to bring her into office and ask them just to help you by watching her for her mouthing towards you. Make it a secret between you and the councilor/vice principal/principal. If you rather help the problem yourself without creating a larger conflict or create more problems between her and her "friends", ignoring her comments is one way. But if it's a daily thing, I wouldn't be surprised to know that you try this already without success. Mouthing off back to her wouldn't be good seeing that probably you would get in trouble instead of her. You could throw her of by smirking each time she decides to call you names and when she asks what you're smirking about just shake your head. The more she wants to know, the more trouble she will cause and likely(hopeful) she will be the one to be scolded. I've tried that trick before and it does in fact work. But I'm afraid it might cause more abuse if the teachers don't watch her a little more closer afterwards between you and her.
But I think the best option is to tell someone about it and make them keep it a secret away from her. That way, no more problems will arise. If none of this works, I can possibly think of another way. :]
PostPosted: Thu Mar 31, 2011 2:49 pm


Thank you for the advice, I'll try it tomorrow

pr0cl0ne

Feral Shapeshifter


Colorful Shadows
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 4:27 pm


littlelambylamb
Thank you for the advice, I'll try it tomorrow


How'd it work?
PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 2:57 pm


Hmm all I did was ignore her and be nice... it really freaked her out xd

pr0cl0ne

Feral Shapeshifter


Zyphlid

Generous Fatcat

PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:33 pm


littlelambylamb
Hmm all I did was ignore her and be nice... it really freaked her out xd


Well, I'm glad you found a way to throw her off. :] Did she stop bothering you momentary?
PostPosted: Thu Apr 07, 2011 3:24 pm


yep, actually she was nice to me...like for the first time since fith grade xp

pr0cl0ne

Feral Shapeshifter


Colorful Shadows
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 2:01 pm


littlelambylamb
yep, actually she was nice to me...like for the first time since fith grade xp

Thats great!
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