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 Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 10:06 am
Haha for some reason the subject line sounds funny to me...
Anyway, so there is this girl that I got a crush on last fall. I only really talked to her 1 on 1 once so far. It is probably because we tend to see each other only on Tuesday nights because we both go to a swing dancing club thingy (where I met her). I am shyer in big groups of people and she is super friendly in general and is always busy talking to someone or whatever. Nowadays I can't go anymore on Tuesdays and I won't be able to before I graduate. When I graduate I could be living anywhere. I have no idea really. I'm sure I will stay in the area over the summer at least. Oh and apparently she has a boyfriend now. Unless something changed of course.
Alright, so last Friday my friend decided to make up some confession day for the fun of it. I ended up going on a texting spree telling a lot of people how I felt about whatever. I know texting = lame way to do it...but I couldn't really do it any other way at the time. I'll skip how that went for everyone else for the time being. ALTHOUGH, I could take about one other particular person later...*sighs*
In any case, I texted - I had a crush on you. -
Simple right? Hahahaaa
I have never done something like that before but I figured if I wasn't going to see her and she had a boyfriend and I might leave soon...that it wasn't a big deal. Of course I was nervous.
She responded saying something along the lines of - I'm flattered and I always thought you were cute. We should hang out more so we can get to know each other better. -
That response did not surprise me at all but I wasn't sure how she would respond in general.
Anyway, she was never talky through text before but now she seems to be. And she seems to be making plans. Like I mentioned that I have no social life because I am taking 6 classes and all that jazz. And so she was like saying we should in the summer then.
With that said, I don't know if we will ever hang out. I am horrible at keeping in touch and making plans. Of course she knows I am shy to a certain extent so I can see her asking but I don't know really.
If she asks to hang out over spring break (which is right now) I don't know what to do. Of course I have a lot of free time for the moment but I am a big fatty at the moment and don't particularly want her to see me like that. Hahahaaa
Uh why did I write all of these? It's not like I am really asking a question. Blargh. Venting? Wait that's what you do when you're mad right? haha
Sooo I guess give me your thoughts and suggestions about whatever. Or ask me questions.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 1:22 am
Heh, she might like bigger girls. I've held back before because I wasn't happy with how I look, and I missed out on some good times.
Just hang out with her! She sounds interested, and at the very least, you will become awesome friends!
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 6:05 am
^_^
Yea I am totally fine with just being friends.
We shall see...I will definitely try over the summer I think.
Bigger girls...well that wouldn't work when I got healthy again. haha
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 12:52 pm
Well i have a simaler problem only shes my best freind and she straght.... but i think shes comeing around its just odd cus i know if i ask her out and she says yes itll be really akward but i have a huge crush on her but if i tell her itll screw up our freindship... What should i do?....
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Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:29 am
I had the exact same problem. I ended up just asking her. She said no ,but we are still best friends.
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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 7:49 pm
Uh if your friend is a good one then she should be able to get passed the fact that you like her even if she is straight. It's usually better to get your feelings off your chest I suppose. I mean you could confess and tell her that you aren't expecting anything but to stay her friend...but if you can handle keeping it a secret then that would be fine as well. It is really up to you to do what you think is best. If anything...she should be flattered.
Anyway...
I had a conversation or two with my crush through text messages. It was cool because I wasn't the one always keeping the conversation going. I haven't hung out with her at all over the summer though. I just have a lot going on and want to focus on myself but life is making that hard on me so yea. I don't know.
I mean I will see her in the Fall probably on Tuesdays.
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