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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 9:58 am

And she is so amazing. Just wow.
A few days, I was having a rough time, and I wrote her a message on Twitter, telling that I'd fallen in love with her. I have. I can't find the words to describe how happy she makes me when I see her.
When I sent the message, I was feeling suicidal and I thought it would probably be the last thing I sent to her, so I said what I wanted to say.
Needless to say, I didn't kill myself and I'm thankful for everyone who made me realize that I am loved.
Because she also thought that it would be the last time she would speak to me, she replied, "There are no other words to say. We've said the beautiful important ones in this one conversation. I'll just say it once more. Thank you."
The next day (I hadn't spoken to her yet), I was panicking that maybe I'd ruined our friendship by telling her how I felt (you know how that feels, right?). I said this randomly, and she said that nothing had been ruined.
She told my friend that she thought I was wonderful, and just keeps playing over in my head.
I just really want to know what she feels for me. We're like best friends, and I really really don't want my awkwardness in this kind of situation to ruin anything. I'm not the type of girl to just ask "Do you like me?". I don't want to create any awkward sort of tension. And I couldn't ask a friend to do that, because I would want her to tell me first, not someone else.
I don't know what to do. And I apologize if this hardly makes any sense. I'm going a little crazy.
I'd hate it if she stopped talking to me because of this.
Any suggestions, please?

Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 4:30 pm

First, I just want to say that that's about the sweetest thing I've ever heard. heart I'm sorry, it's just sooo beautiful to me.

As for advice, I would wait just a little longer for things to go back to kind of normal (waiting pretty much sucks, doesn't it? But even so) and then see if after a little time she'll tell you on her own. After that, I would try waiting for you to gather the courage to at least hint at the topic yourself, but if that doesn't work, then I would consider getting an ambassador to mediate between you two indirectly. Get a friend to ask her in a roundabout way and then report back to you--though in all honesty, that would probably be my least favorite option, too. sweatdrop

Good luck, sweetie! You were never alone in this world since the day you were born. It's impossible.

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Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 4:32 pm

Rin Loveless

First, I just want to say that that's about the sweetest thing I've ever heard. heart I'm sorry, it's just sooo beautiful to me.

As for advice, I would wait just a little longer for things to go back to kind of normal (waiting pretty much sucks, doesn't it? But even so) and then see if after a little time she'll tell you on her own. After that, I would try waiting for you to gather the courage to at least hint at the topic yourself, but if that doesn't work, then I would consider getting an ambassador to mediate between you two indirectly. Get a friend to ask her in a roundabout way and then report back to you--though in all honesty, that would probably be my least favorite option, too. sweatdrop

Good luck, sweetie! You were never alone in this world since the day you were born. It's impossible.

Thank you so much!

Posted: Tue Feb 22, 2011 7:39 am

Pokey Means Business

And she is so amazing. Just wow.
A few days, I was having a rough time, and I wrote her a message on Twitter, telling that I'd fallen in love with her. I have. I can't find the words to describe how happy she makes me when I see her.
When I sent the message, I was feeling suicidal and I thought it would probably be the last thing I sent to her, so I said what I wanted to say.
Needless to say, I didn't kill myself and I'm thankful for everyone who made me realize that I am loved.
Because she also thought that it would be the last time she would speak to me, she replied, "There are no other words to say. We've said the beautiful important ones in this one conversation. I'll just say it once more. Thank you."
The next day (I hadn't spoken to her yet), I was panicking that maybe I'd ruined our friendship by telling her how I felt (you know how that feels, right?). I said this randomly, and she said that nothing had been ruined.
She told my friend that she thought I was wonderful, and just keeps playing over in my head.
I just really want to know what she feels for me. We're like best friends, and I really really don't want my awkwardness in this kind of situation to ruin anything. I'm not the type of girl to just ask "Do you like me?". I don't want to create any awkward sort of tension. And I couldn't ask a friend to do that, because I would want her to tell me first, not someone else.
I don't know what to do. And I apologize if this hardly makes any sense. I'm going a little crazy.
I'd hate it if she stopped talking to me because of this.
Any suggestions, please?

I made the mistake of not really telling someone how much they meant to me, and they died not knowing exactly how I felt.

They died about three days ago, they were murdered. And I regret it so much. I regret not going to meet him. I regret it.

Don't waste any more time. It's better to regret doing something than regret not doing something.

Tell her how you feel. It might hurt if she rejects you, but it will hurt more knowing you might have missed out on a beautiful opportunity to love.