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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 2:45 pm
When I came out to my parents they thought I was lying and confused. I told them I was serious and I REALLY was bi and they ridiculed me. They still think i'm straight and they act like it never happened. Even my best friend,my sister and the first person I came out to, doesn't believe me!
sad Suggestions?
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 2:56 pm
Keep living your life. Even if they don't believe you- it doesn't change who you are. Fall in love and be happy with your partner/s.
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 3:01 pm
Kuchen Kitty When I came out to my parents they thought I was lying and confused. I told them I was serious and I REALLY was bi and they ridiculed me. They still think i'm straight and they act like it never happened. Even my best friend,my sister and the first person I came out to, doesn't believe me!
sad Suggestions? When i came out, my parents thought i was confused, and continued to insists that i was. Once i was sure i was bi, they would not believe it. It took time to convince them, slowly they were able to understand what was happening, and began to accept it. Do they deny your sexuality? or think your joking?
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 3:23 pm
The same for me, My parents didn't believe me, in fact my mom thought I was straight 2 years after I told them. she was more then freaked out when I brought a boyfriend home.
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 5:49 pm
Geoblu2 Kuchen Kitty When I came out to my parents they thought I was lying and confused. I told them I was serious and I REALLY was bi and they ridiculed me. They still think i'm straight and they act like it never happened. Even my best friend,my sister and the first person I came out to, doesn't believe me!
sad Suggestions? When i came out, my parents thought i was confused, and continued to insists that i was. Once i was sure i was bi, they would not believe it. It took time to convince them, slowly they were able to understand what was happening, and began to accept it. Do they deny your sexuality? or think your joking?
No I dont deny it and I know i'm not joking! I thought about it for awhile before asking out my first gf and she brought me the best feeling of love that i've ever experienced in my whole life. I plan on meeting more people like her in my lifetime,man or woman.
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 6:26 pm
Kuchen Kitty Geoblu2 Kuchen Kitty When I came out to my parents they thought I was lying and confused. I told them I was serious and I REALLY was bi and they ridiculed me. They still think i'm straight and they act like it never happened. Even my best friend,my sister and the first person I came out to, doesn't believe me!
sad Suggestions? When i came out, my parents thought i was confused, and continued to insists that i was. Once i was sure i was bi, they would not believe it. It took time to convince them, slowly they were able to understand what was happening, and began to accept it. Do they deny your sexuality? or think your joking? No I dont deny it and I know i'm not joking! I thought about it for awhile before asking out my first gf and she brought me the best feeling of love that i've ever experienced in my whole life. I plan on meeting more people like her in my lifetime,man or woman.Im glad to hear, 3nodding but i meant your parents, do they seem shocked and just outright say, "no, your wrong" or do they just play it off as a joke? either way, i would say just to continue dating whoever youd like. Sooner or later, they will begin to understand. They just need time. biggrin
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Posted: Fri Feb 11, 2011 5:31 am
Try not to let it get to you. I told my mom and my sister and they don't believe me. My sister is also bi and she basically said, "You've like more guys than girls, so your not bi." And mom said to me, "Your just trying to be like your sister." And I'm not! I've just desided not to talk to them about it.
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 11:28 pm
I would suggest to just keep rubbing it in their face until it's clear to them that you're serious.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 1:13 am
Lol, My Mum has made it clear that she doesn't believe that I'm bi.
Openly states that she doesn't believe in bi-sexuality for boys (despite how many times I mention that my first boyfriend was bi) and that young sixteen year old girls say that they are bi when they aren't sure (even though I'm a sixteen year old bi girl and am sure, mostly).
I also think some of my friends don't really think I am...
Mostly this has to do with the fact that is near impossible to pick up bi/les chicks in my town unless you go to clubs (and I'm underaged) so I've only had one girlfriend and that was before I "came out".
I sugest that you ignore it, simply continue to be yourself and eventually they might believe you... if not, the most important thing is being true to yourself.
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