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StoneAgeDudeman

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 12:58 pm


Ok yall. im here on behalf of a freind of mine.

She just recently figured out shes bi...and it scares her a bit. cause she dont kow how people will react and shes scared of what her parents will say if she tells them. so far im the only one shes told. shes really nervous about the entire thing and thinks she shouldnt be

how do i help her?  
PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:50 pm


i really wish i knew im in the exact same situation as her :/ but ill ofer what my thinking is on it if they r truely ur friends they will still love u for who u r and ur parents theyll love her for who she truely is unless her parents are against it but they will just have to learn to love her even if they r against it give my friend my best of luck ok?

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 5:52 pm


Well, that's definitely a hard position to be put in...as far as what you can do for her besides what she can do for herself, I'd just say be supportive as a life-counselor. If she wants to talk, listen. If she feels uneasy, encourage her. Help her to find more friends like her.

Perhaps have her join an online forum like this one where she can have people who, as nice and wonderful as real friends are, will truly understand her situation and can help her through it from the same point of view.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 6:33 pm


I'd give her your thoughts on anything she may ask you about. Say she asks you what you thought her parents would do if she told them. Give her and HONEST answer, and if it's negative let her know that it's a very personal thing and that she doesn't have to tell them if she doesn't want to.

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