|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 11:40 am
ive only told 3 ppl i actully know i havent told my parents and the kids at my school would surely bash me sad im bi that is true but im to scared to tell ppl... im already a total outcast in schoo sad on 1 hand what do i have to lose on the other hand ppl r staring to warm up to me again maybe its not the right time redface these kids they find something they dont like about sum1 and they just -they just pick at u and tear ur sole out emo i almost killed myself last year because they where so horrible sad cry i wanted out emo i talked myself out of it i couldent do that to my parents emo if u have anything at all that u think would help plz plz tell me ill take any advice right now emo
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 12:18 pm
First things first, you don't have to tell anybody! Esp. if your still at school (I know how bad school can be).
We all know here and are here to help, to talk and to be friends with 3nodding
If your feeling suicidal, it is best to speak to someone about it (confedently) to try and get out the negative emotions or perhaps you could channel it into something like art?
|
|
|
|
|
|
Bang Bang Kitty Lincon Crew
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 6:31 pm
I know how hard it is being an outcast at school. Don't worry too much about it, stick to yourself if you have to, but don't let them get to you. I was in the same boat at one point in my life (and yes I had my own suicidal tendencies as well : ). What's really important here is that, no one needs to know anything about you without you feeling comfortable about giving away that information first. If there's a random kid in you're class you've never talked to before you wouldn't walk up to them and tell them some embarrassing thing about yourself would you? No, you might tell only your closest friends who can laugh it off with you or help you through it. The same thought goes with who and when to tell people you're bi. Not everyone needs to know, especially if you aren't super confident and can take the brunt of the force when people start being homophobic and such around you.
Best advice ever is to just get through school make some friends, keep them close to you, and then come out to them if there is ever a need or you finally feel that you WANT to tell them. Best of luck with school heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 12:41 pm
thx for the advice :') its touching that some1 cared enuf to respond
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Bang Bang Kitty Lincon Crew
|
Posted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 1:01 pm
candy_be_awesome thx for the advice :') its touching that some1 cared enuf to respond Don't be silly! Most, if not all of us have been through something similar, we know how much is sucks! heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 1:08 pm
still it meens alot that sum1 even botherd to look so thank you again for ur suport biggrin i love this guild xd
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 6:28 pm
candy_be_awesome still it meens alot that sum1 even botherd to look so thank you again for ur suport biggrin i love this guild xd hey, and we love helping people through these hard and confusing times smile
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 6:40 pm
You really don't have to tell anyone, remember that. It is all up to you. I hadn't told anyone until my 2nd year of college and then only 2 people know. Now in my fourth year at college, only 7 friends and my parents know. I know i can trust them which is why I told them. It is your business, not theirs. If you ever need support, I can talk to you. Just shoot me a PM.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 10:37 am
it meens alot ive been able to help a few ppl but not many i listen and say what i think they should do but tell them they dont have to take my advice because being human we make mistakes xp Twitchums_1 candy_be_awesome still it meens alot that sum1 even botherd to look so thank you again for ur suport biggrin i love this guild xd hey, and we love helping people through these hard and confusing times smile
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 10:39 am
thank u guys again ur advice is helping me alot biggrin it makes me smile that ppl actully care smile
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 4:53 pm
My suggestion? Seek some counseling... it could offer some access to much needed support networks.
School kids can be absolutely disgusting. Their behaviour is based in fear.
I would not suggest coming out unless you think you can handle the backlash.
I hope you can find some peace soon.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Feb 03, 2011 7:29 am
I've also felt the same way! I'm pretty popular at school, but i have absolutely no idea how to come out!! crying "How the heck are we supposed to know something like that when it's so new and scary??" right? It makes me happy to see so many people who care during such a crucial time. 3nodding
I agree that it's absolutely NOT necessary that you come out so young. Only about three people know about me and nothing bad has happened so far... stare I've also considered having suicidal tendencies, but I redirect my urges to cutting up a ruler with safety scissors which surprisingly helped a lot! sweatdrop
I admire everyone's support of each other, so I'm in the process of becoming a member to this guild! Hopefully I'll get accepted! sweatdrop Anybody feel free to PM me, I'm always happy to add more friends! ^-^
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply
