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 Posted: Tue Jan 25, 2011 11:43 am
I have a friend, well she's my best friend, who had moved to a new town over the summer. She is not getting along well with the people there...for this school is not known to be the friendliest. She's been suffering through hurtful words, comments, and just the plain RUDENESS of everyone there for 7-8 months now. All i can do is talk her through it...through text message and i feel horrible that i can't help her more than that. Theres no reason for these people to be giving her crap. She's a very pretty girl and yes, there are flaws, but that doesn't give people the right to bash her and talk behind her back everyday and make her life miserable.
Now that you've heard this, what would you do in her situation? I need advice. I need more advice for her...i talk to adults, and all they can say is, She'll get over it. It'll get better. ...Not really. Not anymore.
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Posted: Tue Jan 25, 2011 12:34 pm
Wow... that's a tough situation to be in. Has she tried going to a trusted teacher, guidance councelor, or principal? Maybe they could offer help. If the school employees refuse to do anything about it then, they don't deserve to be working in a school (but that's just my opinion). You are a very good friend to be there for her through all of this and I commend you for that.
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Posted: Tue Jan 25, 2011 12:50 pm
musicchic2012 Wow... that's a tough situation to be in. Has she tried going to a trusted teacher, guidance councelor, or principal? Maybe they could offer help. If the school employees refuse to do anything about it then, they don't deserve to be working in a school (but that's just my opinion). You are a very good friend to be there for her through all of this and I commend you for that. Yes she's tried..she's supposed to start therapy sometime this week i just hope that helps her out a little. And thank you (: Its been tough, but i can't give up on her.
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 4:54 am
omfg i feel so bad for her!
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Posted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:33 pm
What did her parent/s or guardian/s say about the matter? Can't they just move? I am very sorry for her...
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Posted: Wed Apr 27, 2011 11:43 am
Tsuki Hoshizora What did her parent/s or guardian/s say about the matter? Can't they just move? I am very sorry for her... I'm not sure what all her mom has told her but i think she is SUPPOSED to be moving back this summer, but she doesnt know for sure. I can only hope! But not too much...cause i don't wanna be disappointed.. eek
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 1:12 pm
What have the adults been doing to help her?
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 3:40 pm
Aoi Makudo What have the adults been doing to help her? Well as far as taking care of the bullying problem, no one really does anything about it... so basically she fights with people everyday.. I wish i could go with her and defend her. I feel so bad crying
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Posted: Sun May 22, 2011 8:00 pm
heart I used to be picked on like that. What I did to solve it was I just insulted them back they insulted me bigger I cussed and I was like ILL GET ALL MY EMOS TO BEAT YOU and then I got left alone after my friend jumped the stupid brat that was picking on me. Good times heart
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 11:37 am
lulububble heart I used to be picked on like that. What I did to solve it was I just insulted them back they insulted me bigger I cussed and I was like ILL GET ALL MY EMOS TO BEAT YOU and then I got left alone after my friend jumped the stupid brat that was picking on me. Good times heart I'm glad you don't really get picked on like that anymore smile It's really not fun..
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 6:34 pm
I went through something like that in middle school. This may sound cheesy, but what I did was go home and try to anticipate things that others will say to me and come up with a great come back. Then, whenever they would make fun of me I'd snap something out really quickly and stun them. I then had more self confidence and was natually happier. Eventually, they stopped making fun of me and some became my 'friends'. She needs to show them that they don't mean anything to her, like a fly on a cow's backside.
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