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In my experience, it has nothing to do with the other person.
It's more a personal feeling of inferiority which never really goes no matter who I'm with.
I guess the best way to convince her is tell her exactly what you'd want to hear. If you are accustomed to feeling inferior, you'll know what it is that you need to feel secure. Perhaps offering those same things to her will give her that same sense of security.
I don't know though, nothing really works for me. I feel inferior no matter what. But then again, everyone I've been with has put me second.
Hm. Never thought of it that way. I just feel so lucky to have her especially under the circumstances. My ex bf has left me very insecure in my looks, personality, and any other relationships I have whether they be friendships or romantic relationships. She tells me everything I've ever wanted to hear but I never expected to hear it and so it gives me that warm tingling feeling inside and then I start to tell myself that I don't deserve to hear those things no matter how much I'm enjoying them. I feel equal to her but the past couple of weeks she has been wondering if she can satisfy me sexually as well as a boy could and I keep telling me she has exceeded any expectation I have ever had and that I feel absolutely loved while we are doing anything intimate. But I have these same thoughts only a tad different under the circumstances.
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